Or is it possible that some people may not have as strong a desire. I mean when you're young,and horny,and you just wanna do it all the time. Like the want is there,but perhaps the drive isn't. Know what I mean? That feeling of just wanting to fvck everything. I am also concerned if this is a problem for me,it could be caused by some sort of shyness or lack of confidence. I reas tucker max's board,says first thing you need is confidence. I don't know of any special skills or talents I have. I mean,something that really makes you stand out. I have not been developing any over time.
"The Kiss of Death Mistake"
You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?
Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.
One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.
Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.
What can cause a low sex drive??
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
Why do you ask? Are you in a relationship where the woman is complaining?
If not, why worry about it? As i said in another thread, I don't like to watch baseball or hunt game, and I don't worry about that! It's not like you have high blood pressure, or something.
Always wanting to f*** women is both a blessing and a curse. I don't speak from theory here!
If not, why worry about it? As i said in another thread, I don't like to watch baseball or hunt game, and I don't worry about that! It's not like you have high blood pressure, or something.
Always wanting to f*** women is both a blessing and a curse. I don't speak from theory here!
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
You can't just say it doesn't matter, he obviously wants to solve it or he wouldn't have posted the question. Plus if he has a low sex drive that's just going to hurt his confidence further, making things even more difficult.azanon said:
But as i said, exercise will kill the depression and help your sex drive. Try a zinc supplement too.
My first question was "Why do you ask?", so obviously I am curious why he "wants to solve it". But, per my comments that followed that, I'm not sure it makes sense to "solve" not liking something, since there's nothing wrong with preferences.dav27 said:
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Low sex drive may be the answer to many single mens problems! It may sound twisted but wit desperation at an all time high it seems that if men wanted sex less then there would be more balance in the male female interactions.. i.e. a high sex drive is only good if have access to a woman to use it on other wise it will be like feigning for crack.
I see some people have forgotten another way to lose your sex drive.....age. The older you get , the older women you go for , the longer you wait to have sex, the longer it takes to have sex will become a factor. Time is always against you in everything and there is a difference between a 22 yr old womens sex drive and say a 33yr old's.
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I've read the same thing, but not really experienced it. I think as I get older, I just get better at getting into a girl's pants more quickly and often. I have a 31 y/o gf who would be happy to have sex every day, sometimes several times a day. I've never had her tell me 'no.'
“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”
Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.
Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers. Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.
I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.