"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What body part have women taken notice since u started working out?

Ratisson

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So what body part do u get complimented on the most by women since u started working out? Is it ur biceps/triceps, chest , abs, or anything else. I think this is a good question because we can learn what body parts women like and we can know which ones to improve on.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Throttle

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It is a bad question. Though women are often impressed by chest, bi's and tri's, the way to build them is to focus on your lower body & back. The 'beach muscles' will follow...
 

Skilla_Staz

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Ratisson said:
I think this is a good question because we can learn what body parts women like and we can know which ones to improve on.
I also must say this is a BAD question. Why improve just a few bodyparts? That leads to definite imbalances and an awkward looking physique. I say you stop worrying about improving just a few bodyparts, and start worrying about improving your ENTIRE muscular system. It's incredibly rediculous to say "I'm only going to work on my abs and chest because girls think they're sexy."

If you had a twin, and you worked your chest/arms only, and he worked his entire body....


If he had a great back, legs, shoulders, arms, chest, abs, legs, legs, legs, butt and the likes...he would pull more ass than you. I'd put my money on it.
 

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No compliments, per se, BUT a few comments on my tits and my rock-hard ass. :whistle: If they gotta mention it, they are noticing it too is the way I gotta look at it.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Falcon

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Legs. I had girls come up to me and feel my legs even when I had jeans on! I play basketball, so I do normal weightlifting for legs (squats) + plyometrics + sprinting.
 

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Mostly they're touching my arms.. mostly...
But i do work out everything...
 

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Falcon said:
Legs. I had girls come up to me and feel my legs even when I had jeans on! I play basketball, so I do normal weightlifting for legs (squats) + plyometrics + sprinting.
Hey Mr. Ball Hugger pants, time to buy some new jeans.
 
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