"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What being a DJ means to you, in 3 short simples phrases.

Jaylan

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The title says it all. Share with us what ya think.

No long posts, try to limit multiple or long run on sentences.

Heres my top 3...obviously you can add more, but heres mine:

1. In the dating game, the self comes before everyone else.

2. Looking good is feeling good.

3. Truly own that "feel good" feeling. Confidence is the great transformer.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Black Dog

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Jaylan said:
The title says it all. Share with us what ya think.

No long posts, try to limit multiple or long run on sentences.

Heres my top 3...obviously you can add more, but heres mine:

1. In the dating game, the self comes before everyone else.

2. Looking good is feeling good.

3. Truly own that "feel good" feeling. Confidence is the great transformer.
1. Meeting and dating women from different parts of the world

2. Having extensive knowledge of other cultures, and different parts of the globe

3. Engaging in sex with beautiful (possibly jailbait) women from different countries
 

Jaylan

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cant say I ever get interested in jailbait. I always see them as kids =/ o wells
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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1. Demanding the most out of life.
2. Working towards what you want. Anything's possible.
3. Standing up for what you believe in, no matter what.

Conviction is all!
 
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