"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What being a DJ means to you, in 3 short simples phrases.

Jaylan

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The title says it all. Share with us what ya think.

No long posts, try to limit multiple or long run on sentences.

Heres my top 3...obviously you can add more, but heres mine:

1. In the dating game, the self comes before everyone else.

2. Looking good is feeling good.

3. Truly own that "feel good" feeling. Confidence is the great transformer.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Black Dog

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Jaylan said:
The title says it all. Share with us what ya think.

No long posts, try to limit multiple or long run on sentences.

Heres my top 3...obviously you can add more, but heres mine:

1. In the dating game, the self comes before everyone else.

2. Looking good is feeling good.

3. Truly own that "feel good" feeling. Confidence is the great transformer.
1. Meeting and dating women from different parts of the world

2. Having extensive knowledge of other cultures, and different parts of the globe

3. Engaging in sex with beautiful (possibly jailbait) women from different countries
 

Jaylan

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cant say I ever get interested in jailbait. I always see them as kids =/ o wells
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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1. Demanding the most out of life.
2. Working towards what you want. Anything's possible.
3. Standing up for what you believe in, no matter what.

Conviction is all!
 
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