"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What are you're plans for today? New Years Eve 2009...

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Im doing a last minute thing with me and my cousin so obviously we cant go to any new years eve balls or anything where you have to plan ahead...im thinking about going out to a bar or lounge....

what do you guys think? do a lot of people just hang out at bars and stuff for new years? what are you guys doing?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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A lot of people go out for NYE. I'm not sure where you live, but in Chicago, all the bars are packed.
 
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I have to DJ a bar tonight. So more work then celebrating...
 
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I'm going to one party early in the evening and then I'm having a sunrise afterhours techno party from 2am 'til whenever. I'm thinking of recording my DJ mix and then posting it on here.
 
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Effington said:
A lot of people go out for NYE. I'm not sure where you live, but in Chicago, all the bars are packed.
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Ah, one of my friends is gonna be DJing at NYE tonight.

As for myself, I'm going to a fairly small new year's party..nothing fancy.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I went to a party in my area and got super super drunk, there were literally 20 different kinds of beers and I sampled each one of them. My friend calls me this morning and tells me that I was throwing up blood, I was dancing against the wall, carried around the house owner's bigass dog like it was a baby, made out with two girls, cried (this surprised me) and finally passed out. Kind of embarrassing but I've been following a new philosophy lately, live your life with no shame, regretting is a waste of time.
 
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War Against Betaism said:
I went to a party in my area and got super super drunk, there were literally 20 different kinds of beers and I sampled each one of them. My friend calls me this morning and tells me that I was throwing up blood, I was dancing against the wall, carried around the house owner's bigass dog like it was a baby, made out with two girls, cried (this surprised me) and finally passed out. Kind of embarrassing but I've been following a new philosophy lately, live your life with no shame, regretting is a waste of time.
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Sounds like a blast! :rockon:
 
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