"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What are your views of Interracial Dating?

Chemistry

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Dude….

The hottest chicks in the world come from Brazil… you see them chicks on the big modelling campaigns… not the super-skinny skinny chicks, but the ones pushing the HB10 wagon along… you know what makes them so fvcking sexy? The fact that they’re descended from something so diverse and mixing so many cultures… if you break down the percentage of the various nationalities the lighter skinned Brazilians are then you start to get an understanding of it…

But ultimately I don’t think that has anything at all to do with interracial dating… interracial dating usually has the opposition of ignorant folk who for some reason think that you should only fvck, or at least marry someone who is the same colour as you… oooooooook… I’m English, and I’m in the minority of English dudes that find Oriental chicks banging since I’ve been exposed to the variety living out in Asia for a good minute now… chances are I’ll eventually wife up an Asian chick because their features are most pleasing to my eye, a real good majority are slim, and they stay slimmer longer… I’m not even thinking this far ahead yet, but the bonus to it all is that everyone tells me that good looking Caucasians paired with a HB9 Asian chick churn out some even better looking kids, lol…
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Centaurion

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I really don't care what race the chicks are when it comes to banging their brains out and dating. I've dated all races and it hasn't bothered me at all, however I think it will play a part when I decide to settle down.

Sad but true.
 

Royal-tiger

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Why the hell does it matter what others think? If you like what you like then that's cool.

Get rid of this attitude to seek validation.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Jean Gab1

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PigAdlemPimp said:
I'm a white dude and I only want to fvck hot white babes, I do have many male freinds of other races who have white girlfreinds, I don't dislike them because of it, though the truth is I am against it, if it was more of a rarity it wouldn't concern me, it is like homosexuality, I don't hate dudes who are gay, though I am against homosexuality, it is becomming to common for me to approve of it. :yes:
Well this is simple logic

Since White women are at the top of the racial attraction hierarchy (if we are brutally honest), if you are a non-white male, you'll be naturally in FAVOR of interracial mixing (in order to bang white women), while as a white male you'll naturally be AGAINST it(in order to keep white women for yourself)

If as a white male you are in FAVOR of it means that either
1) you are weak and want to fit in, don't want to be seen as politically inappropriate, so you adopt the whole "pro interracial" stuff. (this is nonsense, how would a white male be in favor of MORE SEXUAL COMPETITION?!? unless he is a masochistic pvssy?!)

2) or you are already in a relationship and don't actually care much about it.

3) you have very alternative tastes as far as women are concerned (or pretend to in public, but this send you back to 1))

4) you are in an area which an interracial stance would give you the edge in the sexual competition, that is an area with a majority of Asian women, in which case you'll compete with anti-interracial Asian males (or Angry Asian Males). In that case you may reread the post from the start, and replace "WHITE MALE" by "ASIAN MALE" and "NON WHITE" by "NON ASIAN".

This is Sexual Competition 101

Sorry if I was too honest.
 

michaelhctam

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theres a really interesting website that hits alot of these issues.

www.aznlover.com

Its basically a website talking about interracial dating and marriage with asians and whites.
 

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Usually when guys insult penis size, it means that theirs is pretty small.
 

Ace of Flames

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I must be unique then. I'm white, yet I find very few white chicks to be hot. I walk around college, and all the white chicks are just... meh. Very rarely I'll see one I like, or of course like some white actresses or models I'll like, but otherwise, you fellas can have them for all I care.

I like hispanic chicks. I propose a trade should take place here. lol.
 

Phoenix_of_the_ashes

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da_hunter said:
Usually when guys insult penis size, it means that theirs is pretty small.
Usually if people are so full of their own smugness it means they got raped by their mothers.

Dont take everything so serious you *****s.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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Ace of Flames said:
I must be unique then. I'm white, yet I find very few white chicks to be hot. I walk around college, and all the white chicks are just... meh. Very rarely I'll see one I like, or of course like some white actresses or models I'll like, but otherwise, you fellas can have them for all I care.

I like hispanic chicks. I propose a trade should take place here. lol.
I enjoy the Latinas too however I may be willing to trade one Latina for two Italian bellas or an even swap for a Brazilian babe... :D
 

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Phoenix_of_the_ashes said:
Usually if people are so full of their own smugness it means they got raped by their mothers.

Dont take everything so serious you *****s.
Usually when people vehemently protest that they 'were not serious', it means that they actually were.

What's up small fry?
 

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My views.....

It doesn't matter what "skin" she has...I'm focused more on what "spirit" she has.

That's why I think all the racial stuff is stupid. Yes I'm a black guy. And usually people associate thugs, crime, drugs, slvts, all that crap with black men.

Now, don't get me wrong, it's a lot of black men like that. That's their life, and their dumb azz mindsets.

But I'm not like that. The difference between me and them is our "spirit." Our skin in the same, but our "spirit" is different.

Same with chicks. I don't like ghetto girls. It's stupid. Very stupid. A LOT of black women are like that, they talk too much. They bytch too much.

But not all are like that.

I don't like dumb girls. A LOT of white girls are like that. Just dingy and clumpsy, and.....oh my goodness! I hate that shyt.

But not all are like that.

Women are "beautiful," not sexy, not fine, not cute.....beautiful.

Beautiful as meaning they are beautiful images on the outside, and pure on the inside.

But you need to find yourself first....and after you find yourself....filter through all the bullshyt "girls" and find the "beautiful women."

That's my whole mission to help you guys on this site. And let me tell you a secret, learning to be a "don juan" won't help you.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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ChaseLachey

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I'm mixed.. Half Filipino and half Polish. I love girls of all races as long as they're hot. I've dated white girls, hispanics, asians.. I'm currently in a LTR with a Korean... So of course I'm open to interracial dating. Kids from mixed races usually end up looking good. As someone earlier said in this thread; it's usually the mixed races that end up becoming the supermodels.
 

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I'm against it in general, because I think all races have their own beauty, and mixing us all into a bland brown would make us lose a lot of our individuality.

It's not that I find all multi-racial women unattractive. It's just that I want to see the willowy, blue-eyed white woman, the sultry hot-a$$ed latina, the sleek, subdued asian and the firey black woman with giant t!tties survive the generations for men to appreciate forever. Women of each race have a special sexuality all their own. :cheer:
 

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To the poster that was so 'honest' about attraction. Only the weak-minded, easily manipulated types will follow that. Yes, there are some types that will say that like the 'model' types (usually very thin and white) to fit in. Lame.

I personally believe and going for what you're are attracted in. If you only like white girls, more power to you. Some guys go for the white blond, some the short latina, some the cute asian, etc. If I'm a race and i'm scared of another race 'taking my women' that would just mean i'm insecure from the start. So please, spare us the BS in the future. Thanks in advance. Honest.
 

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Sir Drinksalot

Sir Drinks....you know what? I want to see some more posts made by some older guys on here. I want to hear some of your "wisdom," why don't you guys start preaching? We'll all have church. Lol, I won't give no offerings and tithes but I'll still have church though lol.
 

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I love Hispanic chicks too and LOVEEEEEEE brazilians but u gotta be careful cause aids are rampant out there
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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