"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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What are your views of Interracial Dating?

michaelhctam

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I am an American-Chinese male, and due to my upbringing being primarily western I have grown a tendancy to prefer a Caucasian female rather than an Asian female....

Do you find this controversial or sickening? Or do you find this interesting and think that this will bring great genetic variation to the human race (because mixed children are hawt :rockon: ....)

And what would you think if an Asian Male and a caucasian female just walked down the street?


:whistle:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LA_Chico

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i think its cool bro, without interracial dating, I would of never been born ;)
 

michaelhctam

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LA_Chico said:
i think its cool bro, without interracial dating, I would of never been born ;)
I share your view man, I think it makes humanity break the boundries of differences! It could potentially end wars! :yes:

I am 1/4 Spanish...(I look very Asian tho)

Whats your mix my interracial friend? :rolleyes:
 

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michaelhctam said:
I am an American-Chinese male, and due to my upbringing being primarily western I have grown a tendancy to prefer a Caucasian female rather than an Asian female....

Do you find this controversial or sickening? Or do you find this interesting and think that this will bring great genetic variation to the human race (because mixed children are hawt :rockon: ....)

And what would you think if an Asian Male and a caucasian female just walked down the street?


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Who cares how WE feel? I mean...are you going to choose the race of YOUR woman based on what WE think?
 

LA_Chico

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michaelhctam said:
I share your view man, I think it makes humanity break the boundries of differences! It could potentially end wars! :yes:

I am 1/4 Spanish...(I look very Asian tho)

Whats your mix my interracial friend? :rolleyes:
my mom is Puerto Rican and my dad is Israeli from Poland bro
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The best things in life are comprised of things which are different. Artist use a pallet of different colors, chefs menus combine different foods, musicians use a myriad of musical notes and different instruments in their scores. The complexity of difference makes things much more interesting.
 

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There's actually support for that idea in genetics. When two traits are different, the organism inherits the stronger of the two traits. This is why much of the 'pure bloodline' European royalty of the middle ages were inbred freaks, and also why many modern supermodels are of mixed race.

Given enough generations, we'll all be brown eventually.
 

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Differnces and interracial dating is a beautiful thing IMHO.

Not being attracted to your own kind, is however, sickening is the word you chose and it's a good one. Brainwashing is in full effect I see. Kinda sad IMO
 

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agree with Rex Man. Nothing wrong with interracial dating.

However don't be like an asian friend of mine and exclusively go for white chicks. You really should be attracted to asian chicks as well.
 

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i am hispanic and caucasian mixed. i have no problem with hispanic and caucasian, i would date a hispanic just as easily as caucasian, but they have a different culture i'm not interested in. i am not racist, do not accuse me of it, but when i see a black with a caucasian, I say, "that is wrong," but i realize they both were into it, so I accept it. It's not like one forced the other into a relationship. oftentimes I see a black man with an obese white woman, i rarely see a black man with a hot white woman.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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rrrrr said:
i am hispanic and caucasian mixed. i have no problem with hispanic and caucasian, i would date a hispanic just as easily as caucasian, but they have a different culture i'm not interested in. i am not racist, do not accuse me of it, but when i see a black with a caucasian, I say, "that is wrong," but i realize they both were into it, so I accept it. It's not like one forced the other into a relationship. oftentimes I see a black man with an obese white woman, i rarely see a black man with a hot white woman.

happens all the time where i live. you see this all over the city. probably the most famous example is seal and heidi klum.
 
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LA_Chico said:
my mom is Puerto Rican...
I knew I liked you for a reason besides your in depth post analysis!! :rolleyes:

Soy boricua tambien bro!!

Inter-racial women are the best looking!!
 

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i'm in the same situation ... i grew up in a white area ... like 95 pct white and the rest mostly asian. i'm mainly attracted to white girls ... come to think of it i've never hooked up w/ an asian girl but i wouldn't mind it
 

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I am sort of the same.

I am Chinese also, but grew up in Australia, and have become a very aussie asian.

Well, i tell you now, i have no problems with this at all.

Women don't find any problems with this, every now and then you get a really shallow slvt that tries to be dominant and funny, with these chicks, you just tell them to go jump the lake.

If you don't think it's a problem (like me), then ultimately, it won't be a problem.

Do you know Loverboy? He is quite well known, he is asian american, and boy is he one good DJ. Proves that these mentalities are nothing, it's all in your head. If you think it's a problem, you convey it subconciously, and women pick it up.

So ease up, i don't think its a problem, you shouldn't either, go out, and fvck her brains out.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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I'm white from the US and my boyfriend is Vietnamese from Vietnam. I don't like him any more or less for his race; my boyfriend is my boyfriend. Sometimes we get looks while walking down the street because of the racial and height difference (I'm three inches taller), but I honestly don't care. I like him for him. Love is colorblind.
 

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i think it's great. i am native american and i have dated alot of white girls. their daddies aren't impressed but usually once they get to know me they change their minds that we all ain't crack babies.
 

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girl_in_a_boy_forum said:
I'm white from the US and my boyfriend is Vietnamese from Vietnam. I don't like him any more or less for his race; my boyfriend is my boyfriend. Sometimes we get looks while walking down the street because of the racial and height difference (I'm three inches taller), but I honestly don't care. I like him for him. Love is colorblind.
You dont mind his small penis?
 

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I'm a white dude and I only want to fvck hot white babes, I do have many male freinds of other races who have white girlfreinds, I don't dislike them because of it, though the truth is I am against it, if it was more of a rarity it wouldn't concern me, it is like homosexuality, I don't hate dudes who are gay, though I am against homosexuality, it is becomming to common for me to approve of it. :yes:
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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