"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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No Escape

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Do any of you see a difference between:

"I love you"

and

"Love you"

Do you think " I love you" has more meaning than "Love you"?

Would it bother you if your girlfriend mostly said "Love you", as opposed to "I love you"? Would it be of any concern to you?
 
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"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Tboner

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I agree with Omni. "Love you" or "Love ya" is less serious than "I love you", so be suspicious. I would go farther and make her say it first, then say the even less serious, "Me too".
 
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solace

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Just as I said, things are too overly-analyzed around here. Most people don't even think about this stuff. I would be more concerned if she just said "me too" after you say it.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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You should give her one "I love you" for every 10-20 she gives you anyway. If she says "love you" I'd stretch it to 30. SHE should be wondering if you love her as much as she loves you - NOT THE OTHER WAY AROUND!!!!!!!

You're sounding a bit AFC, bro. No flame :)

gixx
 
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Lost In Translation

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Omni
If she's consistently avoiding saying the actual, total expected phrase, I smell a game being played

i agree with Omni too

is she at least saying the whole phrase while you are making love ?


Lost In Translation :D

**AUSTRALIAN STREET PIMP**
 
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