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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

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What are your thoughts on Kit Harrington and Rose Leslie getting married (Game of Thrones)

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I was watching television and saw the dude that apparently women find extremely attractive has just married a woman who is maybe a 6 in my eyes. What are your thoughts? Now every hb6 bish is going to think that she can land a dude just like him.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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I was watching television and saw the dude that apparently women find extremely attractive has just married a woman who is maybe a 6 in my eyes. What are your thoughts? Now every hb6 bish is going to think that she can land a dude just like him.
I'd put her at 6.5 with make up and the right dress. Yeah he's dating down, but she might make up for it in other qualities. Thanks to OLD hb6 girls already date guys that should be out of their league.
 

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I was watching television and saw the dude that apparently women find extremely attractive has just married a woman who is maybe a 6 in my eyes. What are your thoughts? Now every hb6 bish is going to think that she can land a dude just like him.

I don't see how she is a 6

face is average to ugly, terrible pale complexion
 

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It's a tv show... make believe....
 

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Never watched game of thrones, but I googled her. She's okay, big jaw, but certainly doable. It probably helps with the BJs. But hey, her family is uber rich and they own a castle!!!! He's marrying up; at least in the political sphere of Great Britain.
 

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I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She's not the most attractive woman on the planet, but she does have red hair, which is pretty hot if you are into that sort of thing. In the books they called this "kissed by fire". I agree with R.U.G., she's certainly doable. Kit is also below average height (he's 5'8"), if that means anything to you. He's still something of a sex symbol though, from what I hear from women.

On the TV show there was another wildling woman called Osha. Yikes, I thought she was about the homeliest thing ever, they had her dressed in rags and all dirty. But at one point in the show they need to get past a guard. She drops her clothes and seduces the guy. Turns out she's got a pretty decent body under there, and she knows how to work her feminine charms. I guess that's the power of women for you, even the homelier ones can turn on the sexual power when they need to (as long as they're in good shape).
 
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