"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What are your passion(s) in life?

Squiggly Sponge

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Hello all,

after viewing the forum for a while I've joined. I am focused on improvement of the self more than anything, but am wondering what are the things you love to do? I've found some passions, but girls seem to throw me off target (must be a case of bad prioritising). Then it takes me a while just to get back on track! :(

What are the passions that you guys have found? Being only 21 I have no idea if these new activities I have picked up are made to last or are just passing interests (although I do enjoy them). Thanks for the feedback - if anyone has any advice I'd love to hear it - life is just far too short to waste!
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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WhitePimp

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-Creating/playing music. I just built a recording studio in my basement and dont know how the hell I got along without it!

-I love computers. I've recently developed a huge interest in them and am teaching myself programming, networking, and web design.

-Languages. I've been teaching myself Russian and Norwegian. It's pretty interesting to work on a totally insane language with little in common with my native English.

I'm only 22 and even though music has been my #1 since I was 9, the other two have come recently and are slowly becoming major loves of mine
 

killbill

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im kinda like whitepimp im also trying to learn a new language, spanish it seems kinda hard but I will get it. I never got the chance to learn it in school so ill teach myself.

My guitar I used to play alot and I kinda slowed down, so im trying hard to get back into it again. plus women love it lol.

getting a job in the hospital. My familly thinks its a good idea and so do i so this should be pretty cool.

and to meet a hottie soon lol.

and to keep believing in God.
 

wolf116

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The outdoors! But I live in the city ATM :( I'm studying, but I hate it and I feel claustrophobic and I think I will quit.

I love hunting, fishing, dirt bikes, four wheel driving, hiking, camping, canoing, rock climbing etc.

Eventually I would love to own a big piece of land, build my own house and become self sufficient. Grow all the fruit and veggies I need and have some cattle and chickens for meat, milk and eggs. Get some solar panels for power. And also build all the furniture in my house. That is my ultimate goal in life.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Interceptor

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Martial Art
Music
Art
Philosophy
Body Building
Reading
Women
Learning
Being creative
Improving
Self Realization

..and dancing!:woo: Step back! Watch out! Look at me bust a move!
 

synergy1

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Learning, women, any kind of working out or sports , hockey, my career, my friends, and lastly improving in everything I deem important
 

Quiksilver

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-outdoors
-tennis
-hockey
-chess
-fitness
-self improvement
-creativity(vague, but hard to explain. It's going to be my path to great wealth soon)

some others:

-travel, esp. to 3rd world countries/exotic cultures.
-geography
-war(all 4 grandparents fought in wwII, so i guess thats why)
-Call of duty 4 :D
 

Interceptor

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Quick! You homo! You didn't put "women" in your list!

I'm calling you out, son!!

What is you...some kind of pansy??!


Put them up!!
You don't want none of this!!
Get back! Watch out!!

Someone's bound to get hurt!!


You hit like a girl, girly boy!

Is that all you got, girly boy??

HUH??!
 

*mattster

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back on topic :D

my no. 1 passion in life is sailing. nothing beats a 3 or 4 week island hopping holiday to soothe my otherwise proletairan soul :D.
also LOVE driving.. tearing it up on coastal roads on sunny afternoons relaxes the sh!t out of me
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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azanon

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Tennis
Fitness/working out
Finance
Computer gaming/Building PCs
Home Theater/Audiophile
Women
AR Razorback Fan
Jermain Taylor Fan
My Son
Philosophy
Reason, Logic, Freethought
Family/Friends

Not necessarily in that order
 

PxDx

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Health & Fitness...with some Br00tal music mixed in!
 

Maxtro

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The only thing that I am close to passionate about is women and studying how to get women. Everything else is a passing interest. Not healthy, I know. Other than that, I spend way too much time sitting in my room either using my computer or watching anime.


Right now it's nearing finals, only one month of school left. I'm also hopefully starting a new job soon. It seems I won't be having a lot of free time, which isn't a bad thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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DonJuanNJ81

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My passions are taking care of my body ...push-ups and sit-ups every morning, and running in the evening...which is a spin-off of another passion of mine which is running. I'm currently training to run the next NYC Marathon and have a few half marathons under my belt.

Another passion of mine is motorcycles.....Harley's.

Basically my most important things right now are self-improvement type of stuff....I'm always improving....be it work, health, beauty, intelligence...

catch my drift?
 

navyseal2101

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Cars
Women
Working out
Fighting (MMA generally, but also Krav Maga and a bit of Systema.)
In the future my SEAL job and later PMC business.
 

STR8UP

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-Exploring third world countries
-Learning about the creative use of money
-Striving to be a better Man
-Developing philosophies about women
-Sociology in general, particularly as it pertains to sexuality
-Finding treasure
-The search for the perfect beer
-Creating new business concepts

Oh yea, and I have a fascination.....no, make that an OBSESSION with tornadoes. I gotta get close enough to get one on film before I die.
 

wolf116

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Also....

health and fitness (MMA, powerlifting, bodybuilding)
women
learning harmonica
road trips
cars and bikes
thinking about the universe :rolleyes:
I want to try ghost hunting because it seems like I'm the only one who doesn't believe in them.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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