"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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What are your objectives for 2016 ?

DocFaustus

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It's 03-January-2016, you might not care for New Year's festivities like me, but even if all this talking about "new year, new me" and "it's this year that I'm going to change" is bs, here in SS we might actually do something, because that's the point of this site, improving yourself and then maybe, get girls, but I find that like a "side effect".

So what are your objectives for 2016? Actual objectives, not "Win the lottery". How are you going to achieve them ?

I'll start with mine.

-Take the highest grade in Physics&Chemistry and Math exams. Just started a study plan that helps me revise pretty fast and focus on exercises.
-Ace my CAE exam in two months.
-Keep up with my training/workout and sailing lessons. Keep with Krav Maga and maybe swimming, when I can't go for some reason, instead of making only my 10min morning workout, I'll add a night workout 15/20min.
-Ace all the subjects this year. This is hard, even without mentioning my usual distractions, my mother language is pretty hard, but somehow I almost aced it in the first trimester, so yeah, it's possible and so I'm going for it. Start studying a bit every week.
-Enter the university course I put as first option. I'm still in doubt about which course will be my first pick, maybe Aerospace engineering, maybe Physics Engineering, very unlikely to be Mechanical Engineering, but I gotta make a decision.
-Improve my patience with people and my ability to make myself clear. Also, I tend to give an impression that I'm mad (my face and my calm mood gives that idea). I'll solve it by smilling more and generally trying harder to make myself clear.
-Read a minimum of 20 books..

So what are yours ?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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defensiveend96

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Good post Doc. Here are some of my objectives so far:

-Continue to lift and get a great beach body (Almost done this)
-Talk to more girls and lose my virginity
-Find out what I want to do after high school
-Buy a car and go on a road trip
-HAVE FUN!!!!

Looking forward to reading other peoples goals!
 
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My goals:
-Raise my average from a 91 to a 95 or 96 by boosting my Biology and Math mark up from a 80 to at least a 90.
-Hook up with 10 different girls by the end of this year (already at 3 if New Years counts)
-Finish my grade 10 piano
-Become more grateful and become a positive thinker
-Gain a nice summer body by toning abs, arms and shoulders
-Become more confident
-Become a better listener
-Find a summer job
-Grow taller by sleeping earlier and eating healthily

Good luck with everything people!
 

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My goals for 2016:

-continue my workouts and gain my desired size of muscle.
-kiss close & hopefully fvck at least 5 girls
-get good grades in all my classes, Cs and above only
-enjoy the year and keep my mind at peace
-make my high schools track team
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

Read more...

GetBetter

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- Become a professional artist by the end of year.
- Write another novel by the end of year
- Go for a tour to another country.
- Buy a Wacom Intuos Tablet or higher.
- Become amazing pickup artist.
- Identity Level Change and become a superb, more awesome person in general with positive and strong mindsets.
 

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-Maintain A's in my AP classes and continue to receive high marks in my other classes
-Begin to lift
-Get a job
-Go to sleep early on weekdays
-Become more adept in social situations
-Read more books that cause thinking
-Don't get arrested or die
 
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