What are your intentions?

[VegasGuy56]

Hey, here's a question I've had to deal with a lot. It seems like every time I go out with a girl, either her mom interrupts when I'm on the phone working out a date, or her friend asks me, "What are your intentions with my daughter/friend/sister?"

I couldn't think of anything to say to this, especially when her mom pops on to the phone out of nowhere and asks this.

Any advice?

 

[Prophett]

"to fvck the **** out her"

 

[TheManlyMan]

"well we're going to (insert where you're going on the date) and hopefully have a good time enjoying eachother's company"

"I'm sorry if I come off as a threat or anything, I just would like to speak with X; you know...she has a really interesting take on (some random subject that you have spoken with X about before)"

"your daughter is really fun to talk/hang out with; I really enjoy her company"

spew something non-sexual and try to come off as a friend more than a boyfriend. When I was an AFC the girl's parents loved me, the moment I became her prom "date" is the moment they started giving me 101 questions.

 

[English_Bloke]

You could use humor/dramatic stuff to lighten them up if its possible like:

"Well I was planning on taking her to X (some crazy location) and doing X (something outragous but non sexual) but dont worry, she will be home before bed time"

Now if they cant take a joke than this will get you kicked out, but if they are open to some humor than this could break some of that arckward ice.

 

[VegasGuy56]

Haha prophett, that would be great if someone actually said that. If I said that to her to her parents, they'd probably issue a restraining order.

TheManlyMan and English_Bloke,

Thanks for the tips. Probably a good idea to be nice to the parents if I HAVE to talk to them.