King Of Nowhere
Don Juan
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Its summer and I have been very bored. What are your hobbies/interest? i need some ideas.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
what are your hobbies/interest
- Thread starter King Of Nowhere
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
I'm learning photography. I like to shoot nature and landscapes and cityscapes or interesting places. It's funny though, women I know have been asking me to shoot them, I'm not that interested as I know a bunch of photographers who use their hobby just to bang chics, and most of the chics asking are pretty much just photographer groupies.
irocknike23
Senior Don Juan
i spend more time in the weight room and field than home
so yeah that
so yeah that
European-DJ
Master Don Juan
Been doing MotorSports for my whole life, driving + mechanic - waching and reading about it.
- Read a great book, lay in the sun, relax - it is summer! ..
Go to the beach, work out, do cardio - summer is the best time for Self Improvement anyway.
- Read a great book, lay in the sun, relax - it is summer! ..
Go to the beach, work out, do cardio - summer is the best time for Self Improvement anyway.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Tai Chi
Chess used to be but now I haven't played in a while
I like to read about traditional Chinese medicine and ****, to know stuff about food and how it affects your body, the yin yang theory and such. This may seem cliché but I love to research stuff about health and TCM is very interesting to me but I like to just search about that topic in general.
I like to watch TV shows especially comedy for ex. family guy and that movie "napoleon dynamite" but I also dig "the celebrity apprentice" with Donald Trump and that show "hells kitchen" with that guy who yells at everyone. It's cool. I liked the movie "rocky" that motivational things are neat to me, even searching quotes keeps me entertained sometimes. Here is one: "Anyone can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person at the right time, and for the right purpose and in the right way - that is not within everyone's power and that is not easy" Aristotle
I like to research things to do with sex too like that site "herballove" "is nice". I am also into Marine Biology, but idk if someone here is interested in that... If I had the free time I would definitely take some Tai Chi classes and if there was Tai Chi for self defense I would murder my own mother to be in dat 1.
chicks
Chess used to be but now I haven't played in a while
I like to read about traditional Chinese medicine and ****, to know stuff about food and how it affects your body, the yin yang theory and such. This may seem cliché but I love to research stuff about health and TCM is very interesting to me but I like to just search about that topic in general.
I like to watch TV shows especially comedy for ex. family guy and that movie "napoleon dynamite" but I also dig "the celebrity apprentice" with Donald Trump and that show "hells kitchen" with that guy who yells at everyone. It's cool. I liked the movie "rocky" that motivational things are neat to me, even searching quotes keeps me entertained sometimes. Here is one: "Anyone can become angry - that is easy, but to be angry with the right person at the right time, and for the right purpose and in the right way - that is not within everyone's power and that is not easy" Aristotle
I like to research things to do with sex too like that site "herballove" "is nice". I am also into Marine Biology, but idk if someone here is interested in that... If I had the free time I would definitely take some Tai Chi classes and if there was Tai Chi for self defense I would murder my own mother to be in dat 1.
chicks
Plec07
Senior Don Juan
Gym, Swimming working on the bike or the car. Going out for rides or drives. Or if I don't feel like leaving the house, then I pick up my old guitar. I usually spend at least 1-2 hours a day on my bike, even in wet weather so thats mostly my free time used up 
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.I train Brazilian Jiu jitsu, been doing it for 3 years now and compete fairly regularly. I hit the weight room. I also picked up Boxing and really liking it. I would love to go for a run more often, but I've been lazy about that. Hanging out with friends.
kentgraham10
Don Juan
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1) Work out 4 days a week (gym I go to is at my college so its only open Mon-Thur)
2) Basketball/various sports for fun
3) Writing/Reading
4) Survivor (Tv Show)
5) Video Games / board games (trying to stay away from these, board games quickly turn into BORED games
6) While I'm out doing stuff I am always very presentable so if I see an opportunity with a HB 6+ I can go for it knowing I look good
7) Learning to play the keyboard/synth
During weekends its mostly drinking + #6
2) Basketball/various sports for fun
3) Writing/Reading
4) Survivor (Tv Show)
5) Video Games / board games (trying to stay away from these, board games quickly turn into BORED games
6) While I'm out doing stuff I am always very presentable so if I see an opportunity with a HB 6+ I can go for it knowing I look good
7) Learning to play the keyboard/synth
During weekends its mostly drinking + #6
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
dereklovesugly
Don Juan
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Motorcycles, basketball, playing bass, concerts (going to see McCartney next month), physical activity. As of late been doing a lot of self improvement. Thinking about things career wise. Reading some books. The occasional brew or 20. Been getting a lot closer with my family as well. I've taken alot of time off from girls as the last 2 girls I dated have been nothing but drama and hindering my perspective and overall happiness.