"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
What are your guys opinions on "thick" girls?
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
well, I'm cool with an average girl as long as she's got a cute face. In fact the girl I'm seeing is a little "thick" (ie, she has wider shoulders, thicker arms and legs, but overall has the right shape), but she's got a gorgeous face (one of my friends claims she's too hot for me, he just likes busting balls though).Warrior74 said:
But I know guys that give other guys grief over going for average girls (ie, not super thin, model types). That's why I was asking you guys for your opinions.
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Usually I have no problems dating a girl thats a little thick.But like I said a "thick" girl will seem a little bigger if im dating 2 skinny chics.
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I say any guy who would give you grief is just a hater because he couldn't get a girl like yoursNewGuy72 said:
These types of men are annoying. They sit an pick apart every chick piece by piece in an attempt to make it sound like they are too ugly to date when in reality they are just too scared to make a move
Date who ever you want, and don't listen to these guys. some of them are just joking, but even for the ones who aren't just let it roll off your back
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
Look at the whole package of the woman. If YOU think she's hot, go for it! Who cares if she's carrying 10 more lbs than a thin woman her height?
Me, I really go for women with fair skin and even a few freckles (I of course don't limit myself to this, I Like variety!) Other guys look at me like I'm nuts, but whatever, I'm happy.
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I like all sorts of women, I don't have preferences, only that they have great personalities and are filthy in bed. Other than that, anything goes.
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.