What are your green flags?

[El Payaso]

We talk about red flags all the time but what are your green flags regarding women?

 

[mrgoodstuff]

1. Double take upon first meeting
2. Inviting you to events, dinner, to her house
3. Always touching you
4. Always smiling at you
5. She spends money on you buys you gifts
6. Laughs at all your jokes
7. She texts, calls you a lot
8. She likes to sleep with you, cuddles you
9. She makes herself naked around you and plays with you

 

[Tedhe]

My main indicator is as follows.

If I am in an "engaged" convo with a lady, I will purposely devoid her of my attention. If she is either upset or flustered by the gesture I know I'm good.

 

[Billtx49]

A woman that gives at least as much as she gets from me, preferably more…

 

[PeasantPlayer]

Did observations from my point of view I would say their reactions when looking at and away from you.

I'm gaming this cute chick at a coffee shop. I talked to her before, but the next time I seen her and waved she looked at me like she didn't know me. That was last summer....she was obviously interested as she kept looking at me, and another person on the table noticed it to. Anyway..I watch how they look at other guys who walk in, as its a coffee shop a lot of different type of guys walk in. If they are interested they will look as much as they can, if they notice at the slightest hint the man notices them looking, they look away with the quickness of a cat jumping off a fence.

That Chick walked in today I noticed her, tried not to stare and make her appear on a pedestal, played it smoothly and she walked in, looked in my book and intuitively time it she look at me did a double take and I reacted and she quickly looked away rapidly lol. Mind you I struck up a convo with her last week, she responded really quick and the conversation was not awkward at all, we laughed and I cut the convo short and "let" her get back to her work

 

[raider87]

they look away with the quickness of a cat jumping off a fence.

When this happens do you usually approach right after?

 

[Bible_Belt]

what are your green flags regarding women?

I'd say most of them are sex acts. That sounds shallow, but sex is a barometer of much deeper feelings. The girl who does what the other girls won't do probably does so because she likes you more than those other girls.

 

[old_skoolr]

Green flags of a good catch.

1. The way she treats random people. (waiters etc.)
2. How long shes been close with her best friend.
3. Always asks me to message her when I get home so she knows I got home safe.

Just lil things I've picked up

 

[Who Dares Win]

The guys mostly said it but as a general rule I got for the gut again.

If during interactions with her I have no discomfort or stress from my gut (which happens dealing with most girls), I take it as a green flag.

 

[fastlife]

When you've been regularly intimate with her for 3 months. It takes about that long for the facade to wear thin--any 'green flags' up to that point shouldn't be taken all that seriously.

 

[Desdinova]

When she initiates kino. If she's resting her arm or her leg against mine, then I know it's on.

 

[RangerMIke]

Upon first meeting her. Strong eye contact and an submissive demeanor.

After talking with her for a while: She makes an effort to keep the conversation going, maintaining eye contact. Smiling, laughing, Touching.

Later: She wants to make plans with you. Makes an effort to get to know you. Makes and effort to see you. Calls back when you leave messages.

While dating: See @LiveYourDream post shown above....

 

[MrWiggles]

amazing set of tits

 

[wifehunter]

1. Love (the real "bear each other's burdens" kind.) This also translates to someone who knows God.

2. Introvertedness (I think these ladies would be the only ones to really understand me.)

3. Chemistry... does she turn me on?

 

[logicallefty]

SoSuave is currently experiencing technical difficulties. @LiveYourDream overloaded the system with her last post.

 

[ubercat]

If one of my shoelaces is untied my girlfriend will just automatically kneel down and tie it for me. It's such an unconsciously feminine act. There's just no way that a girl like that will give you feminist BS.

 

[Fireballs]

Giver
Private person on social media
Always texts to let you know they got home ok
Healthy relationship with her family
Does things for others without expecting anything in return
Kind to strangers/waiters etc
Happy and smiling the majority of the time
Dating her seems effortless.. no games
Little to no drama
Takes a genuine interest in you

 

[dutchmaster]

If I don't feel like I'm talking to a kum stained wall, usually a green light for me. Past that, you have to look at her body language and demeanor talking to you. If she looks open, smiling at you etc she's down to flirt. If she's open and nervous she's really hot for you and trying her best to show that, while it might be out of character for her to act like that. If she's closed off and nervous you either creeper her out or she's so into you she's just acting cold to try and play it cool. Personally I like the middle option best, shows she has some kinda confidence and experience with men without being a total sloozy.

Also like Bible and Des said.. If a girl is showing you sexual interest you can bet she's really into you. Kino is a great indicator depending how she touches you. Or lack there of, she could be so hot for you she's too nervous to touch you. Depends on the personality.

 

[wifehunter]

Or lack there of, she could be so hot for you she's too nervous to touch you. Depends on the personality.

Yes, the anticipation is driving her nuts!!!

 

[dutchmaster]

Yes, the anticipation is driving her nuts!!!

yup, she can't even touch you cuz it gets her too wet and gushy eyed lol. the best. always ends with some great sex