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These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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What Are Your Goals In Life?

Jester FPS

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So we have this site instructing a lot of us AFC's to get a passion and stuff like that, and most DJ's here are passionate about something other than picking up women, so my question is, what are your goals in life? And if you have time, what steps are you taking to reach that goal?

I'm talking about anything from the small to big stuff. (IE. Getting my own house, to the more interesting stuff like becoming President, etc.)
 

What happens, IN HER MIND, is that she comes to see you as WORTHLESS simply because she hasn't had to INVEST anything in you in order to get you or to keep you.

You were an interesting diversion while she had nothing else to do. But now that someone a little more valuable has come along, someone who expects her to treat him very well, she'll have no problem at all dropping you or demoting you to lowly "friendship" status.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

spider_007

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my goal

-to own a nice big penthouse downtown
-have a nice workshop outside of city where i can work on my bikes and my cars (or any other hobbys i wanna work on)
-and that i don't have to do the 9-5 any more (or in my case 6:30 am -5:00 pm)
-be able to take a vecation 4 times a year to some country with a beach.

what i'm doing to get there:

-i have a good paying job (got to start somewhrere)
-i invest
-i'm in the process of opening a part time buisness (puirty scarry)
 

oakraiderz2

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Lets see here...where do i begin?
I want to...get
x5 better at guitar
snowboard like a champ so i can do tricks
4.0 gpa this year so i can raise mine before i transfer
3.7 gpa when i graduate
get into a grad school with a top 25 psychology program
become a psychologist
get more friends, stop being as indecisive as i am not
become closer to my ideal self
move out
learn spanish and another language
write a book about psychology or something
help people
become more open
be able to flip houses
 

Abbott

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Currently they are:

- Get a small 3 bedroom house, since I'll probably live alone (it's simpler).
- Get a sedan, either in lieu of or in addition to my truck. It'd probably be a 1997 Towncar, a 1996 Fleetwood, or the last body style of the Park Avenue.
- Finish up a four year degree (in Computer Science), and get into graduate school.
- Finish graduate school (in Computer Science, or related).
- Consider if a second major is a good idea (if so, it'd be business related, like Business Management).
- Get a new job, since my current one is terrible.

This list isn't in any particular order, and it's hardly comprehensive. It's just what I think of off the top of my head.


Some things I've thought of doing:
- Learn the violin.
- Learn to play a few songs I like on the violin.
- Join Toastmasters (an organization to help it's members learn public speaking).
- Join a gym (depending on time and how physical my current life happens to be; i.e. a physically demanding job makes a gym unnecessary).

These are things I haven't made up my mind to do, but may seem like good ideas.


Ben
 

chickenlegs03

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I want to make my first $1 million in 7-8 years. I want to one day be able to support/fund expensive medical research for rheumatoid arthritis. I also have a goal of building a free school to teach the homeless/poor how to make better decisions. Welfare, Medicare, and shelters only make them complacent...poverty is a choice, and we must make them realize that they do have that choice, and how they can make better lives. It will greatly help the country to give them some financial sense. I want to travel the country someday giving speeches. I really love writing, and hope to write a book someday. I would love to teach math, preferrably calculus. I may want to run for some sort of local political office. Basically, I want to make a positive difference in the world. But hey, those are really long-term, like 15-20years down the road, when I'm already wealthy and just trying stuff out for pure fun.

Things I'm doing / short-term goals to get on the right path: (ways I will start making money...)

-starting to establish credit. Unfortunately I started late...just getting my first credit card now. (at age 22!) - but hey, it's never too late
-saving money from my job, and investing it into my eBay store. goal: to reach eBay power seller status ($1000+ in transactions/month) in the next 6-7 months. I also hope to get into a niche product soon. I'm trying to read as many books on the topic of eBay as possible.
-I some innovative ideas as well, which I may try to finance with my store profits. Such as rental properties, and investing in pre-construction condos/apartments.

Also...

I want to weigh 180lbs and 10% BF by June 2007.

I started at 134 and 10.7%BF on April 22. I'm 141 and 12%BF now, which is the heaviest I've ever been.
 

Just because a woman listens to you and acts interested in what you say doesn't mean she really is. She might just be acting polite, while silently wishing that the date would hurry up and end, or that you would go away... and never come back.

Quote taken from The SoSuave Guide to Women and Dating, which you can read for FREE.

blinkwatt

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I honestly have one goal, to have at one kid. I would like to have three,one older brother to watch over his two younger sisters. When the time comes I know who will be the one to settle down with and have kids,Im in no rush as Iam 18 right now. There are other minor goals I have,to have a decent size house according to my family size,buy a Ferrari 360 Modena and Porsche 993. I plan on acheiving my minor goals by having a decent career and a wife that works part time to take care of her shopping needs. I plan on myself obtaining my Real Estate Salesperson License in three weeks and working from there for my career to have the money to buy the cars and house I want.
 

The_flying_dutchman

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I have a few goals that I want to see completed before I go:

1) Own a nice home, nothing fancy, just a nice house in a nice neighborhood
2) Obtain financial security
3) Have a body like Brad Pitt in Troy (at least while I'm still young)
4) Be more confident and social
5) Find that ever-elussive good woman and raise decent children.
 
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