"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What are your favourite meals?

SamePendo

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Well.. mine are:


- Hamburger - Not the Mcdonalds type ofcourse... those big ones.. juicy, with lots of stuff, and big.
- Lasagna
- Pizza

Mexican food like:

- Quesadilla - Which is a tortilla with cheese... basically.. but you can get those with beef, avocado, potatoes, chicken.


This got me thinking....
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Francisco d'Anconia

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I can go along with pizza and lasagna but also add

- gyros
- bruschetta
- tomato & basil focaccia
 

Vincent

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Mexican: Carne Adovada and potato burrito smothered in red chili. mmmm
Italian: Lasagna
American: Ribs
Japanese: Sushi
 

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Riesen, SweeTTarts, Peachie- and Apple-Os, and Cinnamon Toast Crunch make up most of my meals.

I weigh 450 pounds :(
 

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Mac and cheese, fried chicken, ribs, subs from little sub shops in college towns, pizza and p*ssy.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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MindOverMatter

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haha

-boneless skinless chicken breasts, grilled on a charcoal bbq, with some bullseye original
-steak with bullseye original
-salmon
-poached eggs
-tuna (doesnt matter if it's in a sandwich or not, sometimes ill just eat it with a spoon)
-oatmeal, pasta, etc
- baked potatoes with herb seasoning

and a big pitcher of water!

as you can see, no exciting foods here
 

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a big bowl of tuna, with water on the side if I am in a hurry.
 

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Whatever the **** I'm eating after the bar closes
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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[DoN.2.Da.JUaN]

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kebab with a can of coke :D
 

The Bad Ass Canadian

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1- Lobster (My family is in the industry so I get fresh caught lobster for free, when it's in season) You wouldn't believe what real "caught today" lobster, tastes like... unbelievable.

2- Haddock, Scallops, Salmon, Muscles, Clams (I'm a seafood junkie)

3- Good pizza from a family owned type of restaurant. A place where they make their own sauce and such. When you find a good pizzeria with a unique style, I'm sold.

4- Same goes for Chinese take-out..... some places just make it so damn good. It's definitely a guilty pleasure.
 

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roast turkey dinner

fried chicken dinners

Chinese and Vietnamese foods

spagetti dinners

fish & chips

fried calamari & oysters

clam chowder

hamburgers

roast beef, potatoes, gravy, vegetables

Hong Kong seafood chow mein
 

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Buffalo wings for me(especially from PJ Whelihans and this place O'Malley's in Allentown PA). I'm hooked on them like a crack ho. Anything buffalo for that matter...buffalo chicken quesadillas, pizza, pierogies, etc.

I also really like ravioli with homemade meatballs, chicken salad hoagies from Wawa, and white and red chili. I emit some pretty foul odors after pretty much all of these.


As for drinks, I pretty much only drink water, green tea(the boiled water kind, not iced), and cranberry juice.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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