foomee
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I'm thinking of adding a few items to my wardrobe, but I'd like to check out other stores. Where do you guys usually shop?
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What are Your Favorite Stores for Clothes?
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jesusrules
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well honestly the stuff I buy I get it at Kohls, they have good stuff there sometimes.
ValleyDJing
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Express, Men's Macy's, Pac Sun
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Nordstroms, Bloomingdales, Fred Segal
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Ebay son. I just ordered 7 ralph lauren polos for 140, instead of paying 450+...go me.
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What kinda stuff Fred Segal has? Have one not too far from me but never visited.
Shop at A|X, H&M (finally got one here in LA), gym clothes at Target, Express, Macy's/Bloomingdales/Nordstrom.
Go outlet shopping during summer, freakin nice discounts and soooo many great shops.
Shop at A|X, H&M (finally got one here in LA), gym clothes at Target, Express, Macy's/Bloomingdales/Nordstrom.
Go outlet shopping during summer, freakin nice discounts and soooo many great shops.
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Fred Segal is kinda pricy. I usually get T-shirts or Polos and stuff...go to the one in Santa Monica....hottest women in all of LA are there either working or shopping.......they have a wide array of different designers....its pricy though but the clothes look good...selection can't be beat though
also go to other stores to buy stuff...i like surf shops and smaller stores. I try to avoid the mall stores whenever possible...like the Banana Republic, express, blah blah blah....honestly, the kirkland signature shirts at costco are way better quality, look the same and are 1/2 the price.
I actually do most of my clothes shopping when I go to vegas....either that or south coast plaza in the OC. I like this store called Ted Baker..they have cool shirts.
also go to other stores to buy stuff...i like surf shops and smaller stores. I try to avoid the mall stores whenever possible...like the Banana Republic, express, blah blah blah....honestly, the kirkland signature shirts at costco are way better quality, look the same and are 1/2 the price.
I actually do most of my clothes shopping when I go to vegas....either that or south coast plaza in the OC. I like this store called Ted Baker..they have cool shirts.
Santa Monica eh? The one closer to me is on Melrose. But **** I'll have to check that one out 
Sounds like a store I'd like.
About BR, I didn't realize how expensive it can get until I went shopping there last weekend, ended up buying just a t-shirt. Their clothing is good though.
Sounds like a store I'd like.About BR, I didn't realize how expensive it can get until I went shopping there last weekend, ended up buying just a t-shirt. Their clothing is good though.
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actually banana republic's clothes are horribly cheap. Bloomingdales is good...
The Melrose Fred Segal is actually the more "happenin'" store....the Santa Monica one is more laid back...depends on what your style is and what you want...a lot of the clothes are made for malnourished japanese men though....
I really like the Adidas original store across the street from there for track jackets.
The Melrose Fred Segal is actually the more "happenin'" store....the Santa Monica one is more laid back...depends on what your style is and what you want...a lot of the clothes are made for malnourished japanese men though....
I really like the Adidas original store across the street from there for track jackets.
backbreaker
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I'm a saks guy for the most part. I buy the vast majority of my clothes from online stores because of the variety, but when I go shopping around town, saks i the only store I will even walk into
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www.karmaloop.com is great!
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express, H&M
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salvation army, goodwill, mugging homeless guys.
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on melrose, 1/2 block east of Crescent heights...diagonal from FRED segalZerix said:
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.