"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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What are Your Favorite Stores for Clothes?

foomee

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I'm thinking of adding a few items to my wardrobe, but I'd like to check out other stores. Where do you guys usually shop?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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oakraiderz2

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Ebay son. I just ordered 7 ralph lauren polos for 140, instead of paying 450+...go me.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Zerix

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What kinda stuff Fred Segal has? Have one not too far from me but never visited.

Shop at A|X, H&M (finally got one here in LA), gym clothes at Target, Express, Macy's/Bloomingdales/Nordstrom.

Go outlet shopping during summer, freakin nice discounts and soooo many great shops.
 

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Fred Segal is kinda pricy. I usually get T-shirts or Polos and stuff...go to the one in Santa Monica....hottest women in all of LA are there either working or shopping.......they have a wide array of different designers....its pricy though but the clothes look good...selection can't be beat though

also go to other stores to buy stuff...i like surf shops and smaller stores. I try to avoid the mall stores whenever possible...like the Banana Republic, express, blah blah blah....honestly, the kirkland signature shirts at costco are way better quality, look the same and are 1/2 the price.

I actually do most of my clothes shopping when I go to vegas....either that or south coast plaza in the OC. I like this store called Ted Baker..they have cool shirts.
 

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Santa Monica eh? The one closer to me is on Melrose. But **** I'll have to check that one out :) Sounds like a store I'd like.

About BR, I didn't realize how expensive it can get until I went shopping there last weekend, ended up buying just a t-shirt. Their clothing is good though.
 

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actually banana republic's clothes are horribly cheap. Bloomingdales is good...

The Melrose Fred Segal is actually the more "happenin'" store....the Santa Monica one is more laid back...depends on what your style is and what you want...a lot of the clothes are made for malnourished japanese men though....

I really like the Adidas original store across the street from there for track jackets.
 

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I'm a saks guy for the most part. I buy the vast majority of my clothes from online stores because of the variety, but when I go shopping around town, saks i the only store I will even walk into
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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backbreaker said:
I'm a saks guy for the most part. I buy the vast majority of my clothes from online stores because of the variety, but when I go shopping around town, saks i the only store I will even walk into
Saks on Rodeo?

Hey random, where is this Adidas store?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Merc on Carnaby Street is my all-time favorite shop, period. I like UNIQLO too.
 
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