"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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What are your dreams in life?

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The Texas Tornado

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I created this thread so everyone could share their biggest dreams in life...

My dream is to become a master seducer and, more importantly, create a company and train other men to become great with women as well. By master seducer I mean being able to lay multiple quality girls weekly without putting in much effort (and from daygame, not bars). But teaching is my primary goal... the feeling of satisfaction that I would get from transforming a lonely nerd into a successful playboy would be amazing. I want to lead bootcamps and workshops and take guys into the malls , streets, and coffee shops and teach them how to mack. That would be so fvckin badazz.

What about you guys? What are your goals, hopes, and dreams?
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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I want to be a golf long drive competitor and travel the world.
 
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War Against Betaism

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To become a screenwriter and have my screenplays create great movies.

My other dream is to travel around in an RV with all of my friends.
 
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To buy a nice home and have enough money to travel at least 12 days a year when I'm not working. Also to be able to support my future kids (I might have some) and send them to good schools. I'm old-school and it doesn't take much to make me happy. Don't know why I'm even on this site lol.
 
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To lay on my deathbed knowing knowing that I lived up to my full potential.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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speakeasy said:
I dunno if wading through swamps, drinking fluid from elephant dung and eating bugs is my idea of a life dream but it sure is fun to watch him do it!
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Not really that, I was thinking more of climbing the Everest, breaking world records and having a life full of adventures, I'm getting tired of bars and clubs and the modern ideas of entertainment and having a good time...
 
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Being to every country of the world, experiencing hundreds of different cultures (and their women, nudgenudge.) Make lots of money, save a(tleast one) life, break a world record and sleep with a certain number of women (havent really decided what that number should be yet.)
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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My goals use to be traditional.....make money, house, career, travel, etc.

There's some things I'm proud of that I've done....got better at public speaking (Toastmasters), vastly improved my social skills and self belief, confidence (mostly just by getting out more). Vastly improved knowledge and understanding of things (I've read probably 100-130 books on all kinds of things, seduction, finance, business, social trends, etc).

My goal now is free time, quality of life, lifestyle. Being able to get out uninterrupted.

I was people watching yesterday, I dont think guys, 18 to 23/25, realize how good they have it. Even, punk kids, alternative kids, kids with purple hair, goth kids. Being able to go out and the world isn't weighting you down. That's a luxury in this world.
 
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Finish up these last 2 years of college at this nice school. Either get a job or go straight into grad school w/some sort of job. Keep writing badass poetry, lift bigger weights, keep traveling the country and seeing sights I haven't seen since I haven't left the country. Lastly, perform my duties seemingly effortless, like Lance Armstrong talked about.

Make it socially and meet a fly chick, it's slowly happening.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I want to win a rally, on some other continent. In between pro, and amateur classes.
 
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