What are your best openers when sarging? I need some ideas..

[Canadien]

As it stands I'm sarging alone..

So Is it ok to be direct, when sarging? eg. you look attractive to me, can I talk to u for five minute to see if u are as interesting, something like that.. Can u guys give me some openers to start out the interaction with less intrusion...

As it stands I couldn't even make an eye contact 1 year ago, but I'm turning that around big time, just in last few months, I've joined, and met more people then I could possibly count, and I am always looking for the next adventure.

But even despite after working through inner game, I'm still having hard time getting comfortable solo sarging, should I just keep at it, even If I'm not getting positive feedback? How do I fight the negative vibes?


Is it just about practicing, and working through hardships? how iportant is the success attached to sarging?

 

[amoka]

It all depends on where your are sarging (eg, super centre, mall, school, etc), when you are sarging ( night, day, club)? All the necessary ideas are in the bible.

 

[IWillReturnsoon]

Firstly, on being intrusive....what u have to say is more important than what she's doing at the moment. She'll let u know if she's doing something important, otherwise...she's just doing day to day boring things. Wouldn't it satify her day that a stud like yourself went up to her to remind her how attractive/beautiful she really is? Its what women want, even the stuck up ones.

Secondly, it doesn't matter where the location is....u can open with the same thing...unless ur going indirect...which i think aint needed.

But If you want to do direct style....

I would go with:

"I find you beautiful....I want to get to know you/meet you"(Best if its really a woman u find beautiful or very hot)...as that feeling will show in ur face(Look calmy and deeply in her eyes with a charming smile)

<If you catch a girl making eye contact with u first>"If you can look at me like that, then u can....talk to me"

"I find you very attractive"

"I Like you....i want to get to know you"

If your nervous: "I had to gather up the courage to come talk to you: ;-)

I personally have tried these and they have worked well...but u have talk calmy and look deep in the woman's eyes...u'll be shocked on how well they'll respond.

 

[ChrizZ]

Firstly, on being intrusive....what u have to say is more important than what she's doing at the moment. She'll let u know if she's doing something important, otherwise...she's just doing day to day boring things. Wouldn't it satify her day that a stud like yourself went up to her to remind her how attractive/beautiful she really is? Its what women want, even the stuck up ones.

Secondly, it doesn't matter where the location is....u can open with the same thing...unless ur going indirect...which i think aint needed.

But If you want to do direct style....

I would go with:

"I find you beautiful....I want to get to know you/meet you"(Best if its really a woman u find beautiful or very hot)...as that feeling will show in ur face(Look calmy and deeply in her eyes with a charming smile)

<If you catch a girl making eye contact with u first>"If you can look at me like that, then u can....talk to me"

"I find you very attractive"

"I Like you....i want to get to know you"

If your nervous: "I had to gather up the courage to come talk to you: ;-)

I personally have tried these and they have worked well...but u have talk calmy and look deep in the woman's eyes...u'll be shocked on how well they'll respond.

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this is how it´s done and always remember your BL.
I also usually try to find something unique about her first and then comment on it.

 

[drummer]

Dude.. read "The Game" there are tons of great ones in there.

 

[Lust]

Dude.. read "The Game" there are tons of great ones in there.

Amateur Hour.

The Game is not the bible.

Go read the DJ Bible instead.

Decide whether you are going try natural game or the usual techniques and tactics that most gurus will talk to you about.

Either way is fine, ultimately you want to be able to be completely natural in your game. But it may be more difficult when first starting off.

 

[Kev07]

"hi"

well what i normally do is i find something i'm really enthusiastic about and i just start going around asking everyone for opinions or just telling them about whatever.

then I move on to tell every hot chick i see and try to continue the conversation.

It's all about how you say it, not what you say. Remember that

 

[Vixen]

Firstly, on being intrusive....what u have to say is more important than what she's doing at the moment. She'll let u know if she's doing something important, otherwise...she's just doing day to day boring things. Wouldn't it satify her day that a stud like yourself went up to her to remind her how attractive/beautiful she really is? Its what women want, even the stuck up ones.

Secondly, it doesn't matter where the location is....u can open with the same thing...unless ur going indirect...which i think aint needed.

But If you want to do direct style....

I would go with:

"I find you beautiful....I want to get to know you/meet you"(Best if its really a woman u find beautiful or very hot)...as that feeling will show in ur face(Look calmy and deeply in her eyes with a charming smile)

<If you catch a girl making eye contact with u first>"If you can look at me like that, then u can....talk to me"

"I find you very attractive"

"I Like you....i want to get to know you"

If your nervous: "I had to gather up the courage to come talk to you: ;-)

I personally have tried these and they have worked well...but u have talk calmy and look deep in the woman's eyes...u'll be shocked on how well they'll respond.

Yeah. Because those will totally work. It's not like we don't hear those from every creepy sleaze who wants to get his end in.

 

[Michael Chief]

My friend was peacocking in a fluffy pink hat and i told him, "If any girl says something like 'nice hat' just approach and put the hat on her and look like ur judging how she looks in it. then say 'nah you look like a dork' and take the hat back."

I actually tried on the hat and one girl was like "hey wheres the party at!" i responded purely with body language for fun, almost as if i were dancing =P
worked like a charm.

some other openers i use include:

"hey come here"

"tell me what you think of this"

"my friend here is considering a new look. (point to wingman) if you could give him a makeover, what would you do?"

if youre in a store, point to the target girl and say "help me find the perfect (insert article of clothing or any item) for me." i used this one last night and it turned out to be a wonderful interaction.

"I AM THE KISSING BANDIT (lol jk...you david deangelo students might get this one)"

 

[IWillReturnsoon]

Yeah. Because those will totally work. It's not like we don't hear those from every creepy sleaze who wants to get his end in.

Are you being sarcastic?

If you are...if a guy goes about it like a creep, then yes....u'll be a creep...but if u go about it in a self assured, charming way....i have to disagree 100%. A creep would have the vibe of a car salesman, talk in a soft voice and have a fake smile and have a bad vibe...but the opposite would be a guy who has a genuine smile, looks deep in her eyes and has a good vibe. Tell me thats creepy now ;-)

 

[Francisco d'Anconia]

Take a look

i'm in need of an effective opener for a group of girls

 

[PigAdlemPimp]

You must not be AlphaMale dude if you are asking this type of question, just say "Hi", shake the hot babes hand, look her in the eyes, introduce yourself, tell her she has a beautiful smile, say what ever you want to say, you should behave like you are the Prize that she should desire, though you obviously don't see it like that, she will see right through you if you don't think you are the Prize dude.