“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What are your best go-to lines you guys say to girls who say they have a boyfriend?

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For instance, if you approach a girl and she comes out with the "I have a boyfriend" line

What are some of your favourite lines to say in order to keep your frame strong and show that you aren't fazed whatsoever, and make light of the situation.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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When john lennon asked cynthia out on a first date and she told him she was engaged:

"I didnt ask you to fvckin marry me, did i?"

Classic.

Either they are saying it because they arent interested, or they are saying it because they are interested but want to be honest, in which the above type of mock outrage is good, tease and keep pushing.
 

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It's a red-flag, whichever way you play it.

Should you persist and "win", you won a slüt/branch-swinger/attention whøre, and the same treatment of you is likely; congratulations.

Best simply take it as "no" and not get sucked into that game.

V: "That's a shame."

Nothing more. Just eject. No "thanks anyway" or "sorry for bothering you" pandering sh¡t.

They are one of three things:
1. Taken, legit. (has boyfriend)
2. Liar that wants you to persist. (gamey attn. whøre)
3. Taken, but wants you to persist. (slüt)

All three options mean an uphill battle, with no guaranteed victory. Don't waste your breath.
 

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Vulpine said:
It's a red-flag, whichever way you play it.

Should you persist and "win", you won a slüt/branch-swinger/attention whøre, and the same treatment of you is likely; congratulations.

Best simply take it as "no" and not get sucked into that game.

V: "That's a shame."

Nothing more. Just eject. No "thanks anyway" or "sorry for bothering you" pandering sh¡t.

They are one of three things:
1. Taken, legit. (has boyfriend)
2. Liar that wants you to persist. (gamey attn. whøre)
3. Taken, but wants you to persist. (slüt)

All three options mean an uphill battle, with no guaranteed victory. Don't waste your breath.

Really good break down of the dynamic behind girls that claim the "boyfriend" card!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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"Better not tell him about all the fun we're going to have tonight"

Go big or eject. Usually they won't bring that up if they are interested. Boyfriend or not.
 

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Some Chick You're Tryin To Mac: I have a boyfriend!

You: That's great, but I'm really more interested in you.


But yeah, that's a bad sign. A soft rejection. Just say "oh well, I tried...see ya"...and walk.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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I have this problem, kinna related, EVERY year, about 10 times annually, a woman I've just met really starts bringing up her husband, and her husband this and husband that, as if she thought I was coming on to her, when I wasn't, although I may have been flirting a little, but these b!tches just bring up their husbands way too often in my life Every year, as if they thought I was being too forward with them or actually Wanted them (when, eh, I could taker or leaver, she's older than I'd like, so she's just fishing for a self-pump in the moment on My account, and I ain't givin it to her, there will be no fishing or toying with me).
 

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Just walk away. Unless this line comes up after you banged her senseless.

They are saying that to you because they aren't interested. Stick around if you want to be her beta orbiter. You will be because you are not in a position of power.
 
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