"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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What are your 2010 goals as far as women are concerned?

Demystify

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So what's everyone's 2010 female related goals?

Here are mine:

1. Have sex with at least 9 girls. My goal is to have sex with 100 girls by the time I'm 30. I'll be 25 by the end of 2010 and I've only had sex with 1 girl, so I figure I should have at least had sex with 10 girls by the end of 2010 in order to help improve my 100 girl goal.

2. Learn to handle rejection like it's nothing and learn to move on easier. Fully understand that not every girl is going to like me and want to have sex with me.

3. Be more aggressive with girls and not give up after just one try.

4. Learn how to be the one has more control and power and not let the girl have the control and power.


I'm sure there might be a few more and I'll add them before the end of the year.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Deal with whatever is keeping me from being able to attract women and maybe have sex with one woman. I'm starting small, I'd be satisfied if I could just get a girl interested in the next year.
 

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Make more money, work out more....

There is no problem in my life that is a woman - and to everyone who cannot honestly say this themselves, this should be what you aspire to for 2010 and for the rest of your life. **** 'I will sleep with X amount of girls this year' and other such self-destructive thought processes.
 

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Proselytiser said:
Make more money, work out more....

There is no problem in my life that is a woman - and to everyone who cannot honestly say this themselves, this should be what you aspire to for 2010 and for the rest of your life. **** 'I will sleep with X amount of girls this year' and other such self-destructive thought processes.
I agree the "I will sleep with X amount of girls" isn't very good. Mine was a bit more of dealing with my personal problems that will lead to me attracting women. That's why I didn't put much emphasis on sex.
 

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Not focusing my life around women, I have bigger plans in mind and am not waiting till the new year to start.

I'm hoping to move out on my own and get a stable business going. I'm about to write up a contract with a partner of mine to make the big money.. women will follow to my success.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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I don't have any. I'm taking women off the table in 2010. I just received some funding for my business. So I am focusing on growing my business, writing my book, buying a home, paying off the majority of my debts, helping my friend record his album,dealing with my health issues and working on getting full custody of my daughter.

I'm also focusing on going to a few of these conferences. Miami (winter music conference), SXSW music/entertainment conference/ LA (siggraph and NAB conferences, graphics, animation/television industry conference), NYC (Promax/BDA broadcast designers of america conference), While I'm at each one I'll do my best to get out and have some fun and sample the local flavor.

Women just aren't that important as getting the rest of my life in order. Women are like football. I love to watch football (Roll Tide), but I'm not gonna make football so important that I can't focus on what's really important. Oh yeah, I'll check stats, watch players in the game, and go to one when I can, but not at the expense of jeopardizing all of these other important things i have going on. It's just a past time and a release from stress and pressure. A great way to have fun. But it's not more than that.

My goal in 2010 is to live a full life and to get to the next level in life and to have some fun. I'm sure a few women will pop up along the way.
 

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I plan to work my ass off to get enough money together to travel in 2011. I want to go Spain, Morocco, Turkey, Thailand, Egypt, Malaysia, China, Japan, Mexico, New Zealand, Jamaica, South Africa and Dubai.
 

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Cinamon, sounds like you are going to have fun. Work twice as hard, and take me along as your guest! LOL
 

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Proselytiser said:
Make more money, work out more....

There is no problem in my life that is a woman - and to everyone who cannot honestly say this themselves, this should be what you aspire to for 2010 and for the rest of your life. **** 'I will sleep with X amount of girls this year' and other such self-destructive thought processes.
This "life before women" attitude has been taken too far. Men come here BECAUSE they want women. It's fine to say that having a great, well-sorted life will help you with women but saying not to do things like set goals about women at all is just taking it too far. Treat the cancer but also numb the symptoms.
 

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My problems aren't with women. I do pretty ok, this is provided everything else works out.

I'm working on the everything else. My main task for 2010 will be:

1. Graduate College and get my Finance degree.
2. Get a better part time job. I'm applying to the bank. After I graduate, I can move to a different position, more pay.
3. Save up for my own place, or start looking into all that.
4. Fix up the car, upgrades. It's falling apart and needs some parts and TLC.
5. Women problems.


Cinamon said:
I plan to work my ass off to get enough money together to travel in 2011. I want to go Spain, Morocco, Turkey, Thailand, Egypt, Malaysia, China, Japan, Mexico, New Zealand, Jamaica, South Africa and Dubai.
If its still there by 2011. Dubai is having massive problems right now, mostly financial. People are deserting the city by the thousands because there is no work. Yup, all those cool projects like the man made islands, the skyscrapers are put on hold indefinitely or canceled because there's no money.

2011 might be a ghost town. So remember to bring a camera! Makes for some great moody pictures.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Captain said:
This "life before women" attitude has been taken too far. Men come here BECAUSE they want women. It's fine to say that having a great, well-sorted life will help you with women but saying not to do things like set goals about women at all is just taking it too far. Treat the cancer but also numb the symptoms.
People come here because they have a problem with women. Anyone's ultimate aspiration should be to not have a problem with women. Common sense? I wholeheartedly endorse getting on track with learning game, etc, but that should be the ultimate goal.
 

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Warrior74 said:
I don't have any. I'm taking women off the table in 2010. I just received some funding for my business. So I am focusing on growing my business, writing my book, buying a home, paying off the majority of my debts, helping my friend record his album,dealing with my health issues and working on getting full custody of my daughter.

I'm also focusing on going to a few of these conferences. Miami (winter music conference), SXSW music/entertainment conference/ LA (siggraph and NAB conferences, graphics, animation/television industry conference), NYC (Promax/BDA broadcast designers of america conference), While I'm at each one I'll do my best to get out and have some fun and sample the local flavor.

Women just aren't that important as getting the rest of my life in order. Women are like football. I love to watch football (Roll Tide), but I'm not gonna make football so important that I can't focus on what's really important. Oh yeah, I'll check stats, watch players in the game, and go to one when I can, but not at the expense of jeopardizing all of these other important things i have going on. It's just a past time and a release from stress and pressure. A great way to have fun. But it's not more than that.

My goal in 2010 is to live a full life and to get to the next level in life and to have some fun. I'm sure a few women will pop up along the way.
That sounds good! I hope you succeed with the custody.

My goals for 2010 - to do what I have been doing so far, but more and better. As for women specifically, to find a new girlfriend. And hope that the womenfolk I date before I find that new girlfriend are all high-quality gals.
 

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1. Get a job
2. Working on music
3. Working out at the gym
4. Try to start increasing how much I eat (I want six meals a day but it's hard, I'll have to push through)
5. School/grades
5. Friends, playing smash, chess, poker, enjoying my time with friends
6. Initiate moving out process by the end
7. Women

Yep. Those first five come first. I want to get my life in order again to the point where I am content with how I'm LIVING. The past few years I've been having women at the forefront of my mind (although playing hard to get with them simultaneously and having mild success) but I'm beginning to realize your life is more important. If I can, by the end of 2010 have a life that is moving and progressing, I'm expanding, learning, making money, enjoying my life itself, I'll be very content. One that's rolling, 2011 I'll focus on women when the time is right.
 
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