"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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What are you getting your mom for mother's day?

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Typically my brothers and I get together and get my mom something nice. Last year we got her an electronic picture frame that rotates pictures, and inserted like 500 pictures of the family for her. It was really nice. (It was their wives' idea).

However, this year nothing is in the works, and I have no idea what to get her! Both my parents are retired and are pretty well set, so pretty much have everything they want/need.

Any thoughts?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Maybe make something for her? Thats priceless IMO. I know shes not a little kid anymore, but a necklace or bracelet personally made by you would be pretty cool and unique
 
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You can all get together and cook her a nice dinner.
 
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My mother doesn't celebrate mother's day. Just as well since I'd get her fvck all anyway.

I envy you guys who actually enjoy doing things with your mothers.
 
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I'm not a huge fan of my mom or spending much time with her but I am making a surprise trip home and getting breakfast Sunday morn
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Desdinova said:
My mother doesn't celebrate mother's day. Just as well since I'd get her fvck all anyway.

I envy you guys who actually enjoy doing things with your mothers.
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I'm not a huge fan of my mom or spending much time with her but I am making a surprise trip home and getting breakfast Sunday morn
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