"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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"what are you doing"

scribblec

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what do you reply to someone who says what you doing without sounding boring, i cant exactly reply im on a forum about picking up girls what about u?

so what would be a good witty reply cos every girl i ever talk to will constantly ask this question and even im bored with my own answers
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Scars

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Sometimes I wait until I'm doing something a little more interesting before writing back to texts like that. Chances are your girl isn't doing anything that exciting either, but if it bothers you that much than just lie.
 

WhtRbt

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I usually just come back with something that I'm obviously not doing.

her: what you doing?

me:

- shootin hoops
- repainting my carpet
- upside down belly-dancing

and I follow up with: how 'bout you?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Bass-Turd

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Like anything, it matters not so much what your actual plans are for the day, but how you come across

like all ready said. be funny. tease her. be creative. you could be doing something as boring as watching paint dry and make it sound fun

but remember, being exciting doesn't mean what you do, but your personality. not everyone does fun things 24/7

lol have fun
 
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