"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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What are you doing this summer?

rjones

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I just wanted to see what you guys are doing this summer. I'll be going to nyc with some friends and maybe montreal. Besides the usual barbecues, getting drunk, clubs, etc. I dont know what else I'll be doing.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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MrS

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Get my nose fixed (broken and can't breathe through half of it), going to see Iron Maiden in August, then off to Uni in Sept.
Should be good.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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BMX

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Working the graveyard shift at a new job and training for MMA. Moving in August to my apartment near school.
 

mpimpin

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Going to school and taking trips to the beach and ball games etc.
 

Tex

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Doing a little hunting, fishing, and I'm gonna continue with competitive marksmanship to kill time before school starts.
 

bhsdt97

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I'm gonna be busy with football/v-ball camps, working, and spending time with the fam mostly.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Gatorade

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I leave on a trip to Mexico tomorrow, and might go to Colorado in August for a few days, other than that, work.
 

Crazy Asian

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5 hours of swimming (getting up at 4:45 is a b1tch)
3 hours of violin
4 hours + hw of ACT class

.... a day.
no fvcking time at all to do anything.
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Crazy Asian

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yeah, it blows
the swimming is split up into 2 parts. 3 hours in the morning and 2 in the afternoon.
3 hours of violin, because i really want to make first chair and this asian ***** is so freakin good.

and the 4 hours is because of a class.
and because my parents are asian.
 

PRMoon

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same thing i do all year round. collect my motha f*ckin money
 

SexyBoi

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hmmm...might be going to The Gathering Of The Jugglos in Illinois =]
Hit a few partys
More concerts
Bang girls
Get Wasted!
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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