"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What are those "Naturals" like?

CoOLBanana

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Without training..
Without techneiques..
Without boot camp..
Without practice..
Without the word "DJ" in their heads

Anyone has friends who are "natural",so please tell me what they're like.
Tell me everthing!

All my friends are just bunch of AFCs.
So i don't have a role model.




I guess I'm the only Thai guy here.
I've only heard about a DJ here once since I remember and never even met him in person.

help me!! This country is AFCland.


my english is crap so I won't go any further.
sorry about my poor English.
hope y'all get the POINT.

thanks.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Kineti[C]harm

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I'm a natural player I guess, there is nothing special to it. Just be yourself and everything works out.
 

TooColdUlrick

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i'm a natural too, if i may say so. above all, you must be three things:

1) a good conversationalist--in all aspects.

2) you must not NEED chicks, you must WANT them.

3) NEVER take shyt from a woman, unless you deserve it.

easier said than done, however. read the bible and this site.
 

Kineti[C]harm

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Ye nr 2 is important. Don't hide the fact that you love women and sex, I never do. But I don't jump down the throats of them either.
 

Vigilante7

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My friend is a natural....he is

- 6'2, tall, dark and very good looking
- confident attitude
- dosent put up with any sh1t
- terrible conversationist
- gets pissed off easily.......
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Life-Trainee

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My friend is a natural:

- 5.5
- Average looking
- Great conversationalist, can start conversation with anyone out of a thin air
- Friendly, open attitude
- Confident
- Looks at girls' assets on the streets when we're walking. Even in presence of his girlfriend
- Doesn't take schit from no one

He's the life of the party many of times
 

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I got 3 good friends who are naturals:

A)
- Really tall (6'4'' at least)
- Movie star looks
- Very confident when in comes to women
- Once had a gf who won country's beauty contest
- Always surrounded by submissive beta guys that try to imitate him
- Comes from rich family and has all sorts of expensive stuff (like his mobile and palm computer etc.) and always insists he pays for stuff when we're out
- Does all sorts of fun stuff all the time

B)
- Tall (about 6')
- music DJ and fashion model
- has really good fashion sense
- really chilled out attitude and the heart of the party
- very unpredictable and unreliable
- does all sorts of fun stuff all the time
- also very rich, spends lots on expensive clothing and accessories

C)
- kinda tall (5'11 i think)
- good looking
- always has shining smile and positive outlook
- very talkative, and kino's everyone A LOT
- not particularly "dominant", quite easy going
- also very unpredictable/unavailable
- often seems to do lots of fun stuff, but at any case he has his way of showing he has fun whatever he does

Basically these guys try to help me out with women, but the problem is they themselves don't know how their "power" works. But I'm trying to see how they act in different occasions, how that shows the DJ-traits and what results it has

ThePanther
 

Ice Cold

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I have a few "naturals"

They look differently, they act differently, the only thing that I see in common is that they approach and little by little push the girls toward sex.

Sometimes they succeed, sometimes they fail. They just do it for fun and ummm... the actual process of laying the girl.
 
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'Naturals' are fearless - when they see an attractive woman they approach her without hesitation and without fearing rejection. When they do get rejecteed they are not fazed nor emotionally affected and they confidently try again with another woman.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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1. There is no such thing as a natural.

2. What you call a natural is someone who figured out "the game" on his own.

3. Life is the best teacher. Naturals have learned this and don't need books and internet sites and cd's to get it.

4. All the techniques??? naturals don't rely on techniques...they just "do". It's all about action. You gotta get out there and be a man as this poster from the pimps network stated:

you have the right idea...but women naturally have needs, you only need to convince them that you are the one to fulfill those needs. Sittin and waitin for some dysfunctional or ugly ***** to approach (think about every female that approached you first, were they what you really wanted?) is feminine and submissive. Men are not supposed to be feminine or submissive....we are supposed to be masculine and dominant....aka "pursuers".
Mr. Fabulous


It doesn't take a degree to learn to go up and say Hi or Hello to a woman. It doesn't take some kind of cowardly thing as printing up a card that says something stupid on it and handing it out to 1000 women in a day to get one phone call...

You just gotta do as nature intended you to do.

5. Naturals know slow eagles do not get fed!
 

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Originally posted by Player_Supreme
5. Naturals know slow eagles do not get fed! [/B]
I'm not sure if I like that
how about

5. Naturals know slow Yellow bellied sapsuckers do not get fed.

nah, how bout

5. Naturals know slow Downy woodpeckers don't get fed.

or we could say

5. Naturals know slow Mallards don't get fed.

or

5. Naturals know slow goldfinches don't get fed.

you get the idea
:cool:
 
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