“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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What are they trying to do?

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Ok I didn't know where to post this but I like the replies of guys posting in this section the best, so here it goes.

There are 2 things I'd like to get some insights on, somewhat related but not quite.

1st.
One of my friends has a tendency to ask me weird questions. I have no idea if he's trying to AMOG me or if he's just being insecure about himself or jealous. He's not a very close friend, but he's close with people in my closest circle (weird sentence)..
Anyways..only times I see him is at parties or while hanging out drinking beers before going out on the town. He askes me why I have my hair like I do. And he critizises it as being "too" much. Then when i wore a pink shirt under my sweater, he started asking me about that. And If I ever wore it without the sweater over it. Like he's not approving of my style or trying to make me justify it. When I tell him "yeah, I'm secure enough to pull that of" or anything like that, he just goes "Oh" as if he thinks I should change. He also always asks me questions about how I deal with girls. I've told him that I read stuff and apply what I learn in the field, but he thinks that I'm running around using lines. A common misconception. Also he brings this up in a disapproving tone, yet he seems intrigued and curious. What do you guys think? Is he trying to put me down or is he just interested in learning stuff? Everything we know has been learnt, so why should this be a big deal?
He loves women and is pretty good, except for the fact that he is lazy and only goes for mediocre girls. He has had plenty more girls than me, but half of them I wouldn't touch with a pole. He's a pretty good-looking guy, originated from the phillipines. He seems insecure about his height and weight and also always asks me questions about that because we are kinda similar built. 5'7, 130 pounds or something like that. Not the biggest dudes around.

2nd.
ALL my friends know that I'm actively trying to get better with girls. I also try to get those AFC's to take my advice and listen to the stuff I say. Most think it's good stuff, but never really get into it. Some of them says to me straight up that they doesn't like it or that they think it's stupid. They think that if I use something I learn, then I'm "fake" and are trying to "trick" the girls. They don't understand that I'm integrating and internalizing this stuff to my personality. They think I just want to become a sleazy player who tricks as many girls as he can to bed. Too much morality running around imo :p

One of my best friends ALWAYS tries to AMOG people, even though he have no clue what that even means. He's always busting on people and he's really getting under their skin. He has a way of getting to them. This apply mostly to guys, 'cause to me he seems more supplicating to girls. But still not a wuss. He COULD be a natural but he never really makes any moves. He's probably the best looking guy in my friend-group..height, looks and physic. He has a GF now though, so he'll probably turn into a chump real soon :) Now that he knows about me learning this stuff, he has alot of ammo to try and AMOG me. He tries to embarres me in front of girls and to get me to explain myself by telling them what I'm doing, but in a clever and subtle way. He's not being a total jerk about it, just kinda "picking" on me :) He's the ONE guy that really can make me agitated in an argument or discussion. He's so frickin' annoying in the way he debates that it's almost impossible to stay calm or cool. I'm that way too, but he's even better. I'm able to AMOG him now though after reading techniques and getting into the right mindset. But why do guys try to make this look rediculous? When I tell stuff to my friends I expect them to keep it in the group and not use it to make me seem stupid or make fun of me. I always play it off cool though and often times it leads to interesting conversations with girls though. I talk about seduction theory to them and they are intrigued and amazed. I also get into the double-standards about women-magazines, make-up and girls playing games, while guys are supposed to just know this **** from birth and are not allowed to learn. What's your take on this? Do you guys ever have friends trying to make you look like an ass or to diss what you are doing?

Thx for reading. Any insights would be appreciated.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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People don't appreciate what they don't seek. Why would you wanna tell them this stuff anyways? To feel better about yourself? It raises expectations and puts burden of proof on you. Never tell people you know about specific self-improvement efforts.

Btw, about the AMOGing. Never explain yourself. Ignore their question first. Then without even looking at them, facing sideways as if about to walk off (negative body language) give them the most obviously useless non-serious answer so they know you won't qualify yourself to them.

When you play along you enter their frame and thats when they got control on you.

Bleh, my 2nd edit!

AMOGers can also appear to level and be your great friends when 1 on 1, talking about deep stuff and connecting. But when in group watch out for them. Be careful what you disclose to them.
 

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sorry man but u lost for making this thread.

dont worry about it, its not important.
 

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Originally posted by Life-trainee
People don't appreciate what they don't seek. Why would you wanna tell them this stuff anyways? To feel better about yourself? It raises expectations and puts burden of proof on you. Never tell people you know about specific self-improvement efforts.
Because they are my friends and I have nothing to hide. It's just a normal topic imo. When we discuss *****es it comes up. I don't care about living up to expectations. I only care about living up to my own expectations. I don't value anyones opinion more than my own... I only tell them about techniques and stuff though. Not about self-improvement-stuff. That's just inside my own head.



Originally posted by Soprano
sorry man but u lost for making this thread.

dont worry about it, its not important.
I don't worry about it. I'm just curious about the psychological aspect of this behaviour. I can disarm any attempt to embarres me or make me look foolish. That's why only my most confident friends even bother to try. Most know they will get back tenfold.. I just find this behaviour very odd and try-hard from their side...
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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I had a guy who is a sort of friend proper trying to fvck my sh1t up with a girl i was with the other week. He succeed too. Started talking sh1t with her while i was away. I met up with him the next night and told him if he ever messed with a girl i was gaming again he would be in a wheelchair for the next few months. As you can understand i wasnt best pleased...

I have had guys trying to AMOG me quite a few times. I just throw something back at them that makes them feel insecure. It seems to work but i should prob follow Life Trainee plan on it.

As for talking to friends about DJ tactics. I talk with 2 of my mates about DJ tactics. One of them i have taught him everything i have learnt on this site. Hes prob reading this! :p

If they think this sh1t is stupid ask them why you are getting more pu$$y. Also ask them if you are being "fake" how do you normally act? You are you! How you act at this moment is WHO YOU ARE. They cant tell you that your faking yourself....
 

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Friends don't AMOG friends, as simple as that. If they feel the need to AMOG, they're not on your level. Be careful about disclosing stuff that is important to you. If i talk about PU techniques to my friends it's usually about the ones I never use like routines. This way they can't catch me using these and cokblock me.
 

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Originally posted by Life-Trainee
Friends don't AMOG friends, as simple as that. If they feel the need to AMOG, they're not on your level. Be careful about disclosing stuff that is important to you. If i talk about PU techniques to my friends it's usually about the ones I never use like routines. This way they can't catch me using these and cokblock me.
I have only spoke with 2 of my friends and my brother who i trust. I dont think they have told him. I think he has just noticed that i have been pulling alot more lately and is jelous. Plus one of the girls i recently gamed was his sister.

Friends shouldnt AMOG friends thow. I treat one of the guys I told all the tactics i know as a wing. I think he has tried to AMOG me once but he was stressed at the time and it didnt work anyways.
 
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