"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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What are the sex toys every man should have?

Pumax

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Sex toys aren't often talked about.

Of course, a man should master his fingers, his tongue, his p3nis, and all the tools nature has provided.

But have you ever wondered if you actually have a set of s3x toys you use to have fun with women?

Personally, a good vibrator, both external and internal, handcuffs, ropes, and a black eye mask.

What about you?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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The Duke

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No girl wants to have a sex toy that was used on some other girl to be used on her. Some aren't even comfortable with the same mattress your ex was on.

If you want to use sex toys with her, then its best to hit up the store with her. Its actually a fun date night activity if you are cool and comfortable about it.

I wouldn't recommend sex toys with girls I've dated for less than 6months unless she is a total freak. Only use to spice things up. You don't want this to be too much too soon.
 

Barrister

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Every once in awhile they are good to spice things up in an LTR. And will agree with Duke that a visit to a sex toy store can be fun with a woman mostly due to the anticipation it builds for getting home with her. However, for the most part I find them to be a distraction. I typically enjoy using my own God-given talents more than I do using a toy on a woman. I especially despise things like c*ck rings that just feel strange and get in the way.
 

MatureDJ

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The only sex toy a man needs is a jackhammer pen!s. :rolleyes:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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