"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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what are the odds?

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what are the odds of a girl that slept with you on the first night isnt a *****? well i went to this party the other day and i met some girl, and she started liking me pretty much since the first thing i said which was a bit rude according to her. well later that night we started making out, and she said that she didnt want to do anything else other than making out that night cause she isnt a slut. so after a little while we stopped and then later that night we were talking and then she tells me on that i turn her on sooo much, and that she wants to make out again. so she gets on top of me and about 10 mins later with her heart racing that i could feel it she asked me if i wanted to have sex. how could i not? i was a bit drunk and im a raging testosterone male. and then after we were done she gave me a wonderful bj. Well i cant take her seriously, except for like sex and she has been calling me latley to hang out, but i just say no or dont answer. Im sure this ***** just wants me to get her to really be into her and then just laugh at me like all the other guys.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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play her....use her...throw her away like a used condom.

basically beat her at her own game.
 

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get out the testosterone so that you can be more focused on girls who are actualy gf material
 

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She has feelings. Respect them by being honest with her.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Wow you guys are all incredibly insecure [immature]. Just because a girl sleeps with you on a meet doesnt mean shes a slut - it just means she likes you enough to sleep with you. And sex is a physical promise, so she has responsibility towards you. To think she just wants to "use you" is the farthest thing from the truth.
 

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Wow you guys are all incredibly insecure [immature]. Just because a girl sleeps with you on a meet doesnt mean shes a slut - it just means she likes you enough to sleep with you. And sex is a physical promise, so she has responsibility towards you. To think she just wants to "use you" is the farthest thing from the truth.
well yea im not saying that every girl that sleeps with a guy on the first night HAS to be a slut....thats why i said what are the odds of this girl not being one? to be honest i think the odds are pretty slim. what if she meets another guy she likes the next day, im going to be pretty inclined to think shes going to have sex with him.
 

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Wow you guys are all incredibly insecure [immature]. Just because a girl sleeps with you on a meet doesnt mean shes a slut - it just means she likes you enough to sleep with you. And sex is a physical promise, so she has responsibility towards you. To think she just wants to "use you" is the farthest thing from the truth.
Exactly, not every girl who has sex is a slut.
 

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Originally posted by TonyTheTigerOI
Wow you guys are all incredibly insecure [immature]. Just because a girl sleeps with you on a meet doesnt mean shes a slut - it just means she likes you enough to sleep with you. And sex is a physical promise, so she has responsibility towards you. To think she just wants to "use you" is the farthest thing from the truth.
Then who cares, you dont have to marry her, she isnt necessarily going to have sex with everyone, and also even if she does, you would have sex with a different girl the next day, so yo shouldnt have 2 sets of rules,

But even if she does, than you dont have to marry this girl, you could have sex with her again, as long as you use protection and are smart about it, and dont make her think its more than it is, than just have fun with it, without hurting her feelings.
 
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