"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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what are the must read books in your opinion?

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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if videos can do..please do see the videos of Tyler from RSDNation ..really good..)
 

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The Count of Monte Cristo : Alexandre Dumas
48 laws of power : Robert Greene
Art of War : Sun Tzu
The 47 Ronin Story: Isaac Titsingh
 

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WHY GOVERNMENT CAN'T WORK, by Harry Browne, BRILLIANT man and we should have had him for president, long ago..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Credos

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Starship Troopers by Robert Heinlein

Personal favorite here
 

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TUNNEL IN THE SKY was far better. both are kid's books, tho. Lucifer's Hammer, Larry Niven, IIRC
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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The chocolate war by romert cormier awesome book I read in school.
The art of war of course.
anything by neil strauss.
I know you didnt mention movies but i have to add KIDZ one of the most underated films of the 90's.Anothe fav pumping iron my fave documentary.
 
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