What are the easiest fastest ways to increase your attractivness/chances wth women?

[sam010101]

for example improving your grooming and getting new clothes is a very fast easy way to increase your attractiveness to women in an extremely short amount of time

looking a woman in the eyes more when you speak to her is too

acting and dressing in a "cooler" way is a very fast cheap way to increase your social status and there for alphaness and attractiveness


having a friend/s pretending to look up to you and place you as alpha when you and he talk to a woman is a good way you can take turns to make women think you are alpha and leader of your group and trick her into being attracted to you, again if everyone co-operates and wants to do it, this is a fast easy way to create attraction


any more?


(things like self confidence, self esteem, humor etc are thinsg that are /can be very difficult and time consuming to learn even if they are very effective, so it would be good to have some fast easy ways to tied me/us over till I can get them down)

 

[narcissist]

Genuine positivity.

 

[El Payaso]

Work out and get a banging body.

Women will throw themselves at you.

 

[sam010101]

Work out and get a banging body.

Women will throw themselves at you.

really?

Im getting close to that but i dont think thats teh case, i think thats what men pressume, also its a longer term thing takes many months or even years

Will continue regardless with this one I liek working out, im at teh stage where im a little too fat and an ok shape but not really stand out noticeable it will be good soon ofr this but im not sure its worth it or it will work, I think gay men will like me more but women prob only increases a little bit

 

[Mike32ct]

The fastest "low hanging fruit" is a very stylish haircut.

 

[sam010101]

any more?

 

[RangerMIke]

Be in the best shape you can be.
Dress well, be clean, smell and look good.
Have a positive attitude, be friendly, smile.
Adopt a demeanor that says you really don't need anything from anyone.

 

[Mike32ct]

I won't go into a long fashion thread because that is a whole different animal.

But for the clothing portion of your looks-maxing mission, assuming that you aren't wearing a suit, I would say that the SHIRT is the single most critical clothing item because that is what most people notice first. When I go shopping, I look through 30 or 40 shirts and MAYBE pick ONE.

On the other hand, if I'm wearing a tie, then the shirt is less critical. It's the TIE that is the eye-catcher. Then I have to be super picky about which tie I buy.

After that, it's shoes, belt and pants.

 

[Dan Bautista]

really?

Im getting close to that but i dont think thats teh case, i think thats what men pressume, also its a longer term thing takes many months or even years

Will continue regardless with this one I liek working out, im at teh stage where im a little too fat and an ok shape but not really stand out noticeable it will be good soon ofr this but im not sure its worth it or it will work, I think gay men will like me more but women prob only increases a little bit

There's a lot that won't fall just for a good body but then there's some hungry b!tches out there who will go cray-cray when they see you shirtless with those amazing abs.

And when you show your goods off on social media that's only going to get you more b!tches.

 

[bigneil]

1) Eliminate all junk food and processed foods.
2) Cook all your own meals.
3) Try fasting 1 day per week.
4) Get a free weight set and lift every day.
5) Do 25 push ups at least 3 days a week.
6) Go to Jos A Bank and spend $1500 getting buy 1 get 1 free sport coat, 2 slacks, 4 shirts, 4 ties, 1 pairs of shoes (meaning 2, 4, 8, 8 and 2 after one free).
7) Practice hanging out with beautiful women.
8) Be seen on dates with beautiful women.
9) Satisfy beautiful women.
10) Have a job that pays really well.

 

[RangerMIke]

Fitting a stereotype, tattoos, drugs, game, settling

This is a good point. Your appearance MUST reflect who you are.... if I went out and got a tatoo, wore long hair and got ear rings I would completely fvck up my game.

 

[wifehunter]

Observational, situational sarcasm and irony.

It's like giving candy to kids!

 

[RangerMIke]

I won't go into a long fashion thread because that is a whole different animal.

But for the clothing portion of your looks-maxing mission, assuming that you aren't wearing a suit, I would say that the SHIRT is the single most critical clothing item because that is what most people notice first.

After that, it's shoes, belt and pants.

Shirt is important, but with women it is not the most important. Shoes are the most important. She can tell more about you from your shoes than anything else you wear. It tells her if you know how to dress appropriately for an occasion, if you take care of your shoes, how expensive they are and thus how much money you have.

With women it's the details... are you wearing cufflinks?, how do you tie your tie? What is the thread count of the shirt you are wearing.

You might be surprised to know that what kind of wallet you have matters. You could have a wad of cash and a bunch of Platium cards... but if all that is in a $15 Wal-Mart velco special... it will not mean nearly as much to a woman then you pulling out a Bosca Italian leather wallet. Trust me. She will notice.

 

[Mike32ct]

Shirt is important, but with women it is not the most important. Shoes are the most important. She can tell more about you from your shoes than anything else you wear. It tells her if you know how to dress appropriately for an occasion, if you take care of your shoes, how expensive they are and thus how much money you have.

With women it's the details... are you wearing cufflinks?, how do you tie your tie? What is the thread count of the shirt you are wearing.

You might be surprised to know that what kind of wallet you have matters. You could have a wad of cash and a bunch of Platium cards... but if all that is in a $15 Wal-Mart velco special... it will not mean nearly as much to a woman then you pulling out a Bosca Italian leather wallet. Trust me. She will notice.

Cool. What are your thoughts on a watch? I'm of the opinion that a guy shouldn't bother with a watch unless he can afford a pricey one. And if so, about how much would you need to spend on one?

 

[wifehunter]

Forgot, and this is the mother lode!!!...

It doesn't matter what you wear, or what you say....

Just...

be a catch!!!

NOTHING works better... NOTHING!!!

 

[RangerMIke]

Cool. What are your thoughts on a watch? I'm of the opinion that a guy shouldn't bother with a watch unless he can afford a pricey one. And if so, about how much would you need to spend on one?

Correct. Don't wear any jewelry or watches unless it's worth something or a family heirloom.

 

[BeExcellent]

Advice from the old lady...

Women notice grooming, smells and shoes first. I know I do. Shoes (and how to wear shoes that are appropriate for an occasion say so much about a man you wouldn't believe it.)

Style preferences are going to vary from man to man but let's start with a few attraction killers and basics. Be sure these things are up to snuff and you will have an improvement in your confidence based on your looks, and a corresponding improvement in your results.

Things that matter for immediate impact:

1. Pot bellies and beer bellies are a turn-off. They are ugly and scream "slob." The idea of seeing one naked is gross. If you have this issue you need to start eating better and working out pronto. Drink less if you need to.

2. Running shoes are for running ONLY. Never wear running shoes in a casual setting. Nothing screams "Stylishly inept" faster. If you have to have some sort of athletic shoe for casual wear get a pair of Vans or a pair of Sambas. Never ever running shoes. Tennis shoes are a close second unless you are playing tennis. Keep some good leather or canvas flip flops handy and keep your toenails clipped. No flip flops if you have toenail fungus or ugly feet (you know who you are.)

3. The amount of hair you have on your head does not matter. HOW you wear it does matter. If you have great hair, get a great haircut and comb it properly; if you have lost the top out of your hair keep it clipped short or shave it bald. Richard Nixon dos were not sexy then and they are not sexy now. Bruce Willis and Mr. Clean looks will score you the chicks. If you get flakes use a dandruff shampoo. Dandruff is not sexy.

4. Take care of your face. Grooming REALLY matters. If you wear facial hair, keep it trimmed neat. If you clean shave keep it shaved (unless its Sunday and you have sexy 2 day stubble. The guys with sexy 2 day stubble know who they are; they've been told by women.) If you are patchy, either wear a goatee or shave and do not do the 2-day stubble, you'll only look like you didn't bathe or didn't care (both bad). If you have acne use an exfoliant, get a little sun to help dry it out, wash you face with a gentle soap twice a day; cut back on dairy and sugar (which feed the bacteria that proliferates in acne.) See a dermatologist if its bad. Keep your hands OFF your face & wash your hand often. Dirt from your hands is a major contributor to acne.

5. Get some nice aftershave or cologne. Women remember smells. My first serious LTR wore Drakkar Noir. That was 25 years ago. I still recall his sexy smell.

6. Floss. Brush your tongue and gums as well as your teeth. Bad breath is like body odor. It is an instant attraction killer no matter how cute a guy is.

7. Plastic watches look cheap. They are also clunky. They are fine for a 5K or a workout, not for a night out. Ditto Fitbits and the like.

8. Keep your car clean & neat. Sloppy cars indicate a whole host of sloppy/lazy habits. Says all the wrong things about you.

9. Be able to make a decision. Indecisiveness is NOT sexy, even on really little things. If you can't/won't lead how can you expect her to follow? Make statements and lead by making the little decisions. She will tell you if she has a problem with something you say (food preference for example) and you can suggest an alternative at that point.

10. Learn to kiss well. If you are a good kisser she is going to want to discover what else you are good at. Kissing is a skill and there is stuff on the internet to help you figure that out.

That's kind of a grab bag, but each of these things matter. Some are simpler to fix than others, but this list will help you in the right direction.

 

[wifehunter]

Advice from the old lady...

Women notice grooming, smells and shoes first. I know I do. Shoes (and how to wear shoes that are appropriate for an occasion say so much about a man you wouldn't believe it.)

Style preferences are going to vary from man to man but let's start with a few attraction killers and basics. Be sure these things are up to snuff and you will have an improvement in your confidence based on your looks, and a corresponding improvement in your results.

Things that matter for immediate impact:

1. Pot bellies and beer bellies are a turn-off. They are ugly and scream "slob." The idea of seeing one naked is gross. If you have this issue you need to start eating better and working out pronto. Drink less if you need to.

2. Running shoes are for running ONLY. Never wear running shoes in a casual setting. Nothing screams "Stylishly inept" faster. If you have to have some sort of athletic shoe for casual wear get a pair of Vans or a pair of Sambas. Never ever running shoes. Tennis shoes are a close second unless you are playing tennis. Keep some good leather or canvas flip flops handy and keep your toenails clipped. No flip flops if you have toenail fungus or ugly feet (you know who you are.)

3. The amount of hair you have on your head does not matter. HOW you wear it does matter. If you have great hair, get a great haircut and comb it properly; if you have lost the top out of your hair keep it clipped short or shave it bald. Richard Nixon dos were not sexy then and they are not sexy now. Bruce Willis and Mr. Clean looks will score you the chicks. If you get flakes use a dandruff shampoo. Dandruff is not sexy.

4. Take care of your face. Grooming REALLY matters. If you wear facial hair, keep it trimmed neat. If you clean shave keep it shaved (unless its Sunday and you have sexy 2 day stubble. The guys with sexy 2 day stubble know who they are; they've been told by women.) If you are patchy, either wear a goatee or shave and do not do the 2-day stubble, you'll only look like you didn't bathe or didn't care (both bad). If you have acne use an exfoliant, get a little sun to help dry it out, wash you face with a gentle soap twice a day; cut back on dairy and sugar (which feed the bacteria that proliferates in acne.) See a dermatologist if its bad. Keep your hands OFF your face & wash your hand often. Dirt from your hands is a major contributor to acne.

5. Get some nice aftershave or cologne. Women remember smells. My first serious LTR wore Drakkar Noir. That was 25 years ago. I still recall his sexy smell.

6. Floss. Brush your tongue and gums as well as your teeth. Bad breath is like body odor. It is an instant attraction killer no matter how cute a guy is.

7. Plastic watches look cheap. They are also clunky. They are fine for a 5K or a workout, not for a night out. Ditto Fitbits and the like.

8. Keep your car clean & neat. Sloppy cars indicate a whole host of sloppy/lazy habits. Says all the wrong things about you.

9. Be able to make a decision. Indecisiveness is NOT sexy, even on really little things. If you can't/won't lead how can you expect her to follow? Make statements and lead by making the little decisions. She will tell you if she has a problem with something you say (food preference for example) and you can suggest an alternative at that point.

10. Learn to kiss well. If you are a good kisser she is going to want to discover what else you are good at. Kissing is a skill and there is stuff on the internet to help you figure that out.

That's kind of a grab bag, but each of these things matter. Some are simpler to fix than others, but this list will help you in the right direction.

This list reminds me of how much progress I've made, thanks!

Lowcarb diet = love handles almost gone, the belly is the last thing to go.

The dandruff bit can also be maintained with vinegar.

Shoes : black on black vans (not really vans, but look like them)

 

[Roober]

Advice from the old lady...

Women notice grooming, smells and shoes first. I know I do. Shoes (and how to wear shoes that are appropriate for an occasion say so much about a man you wouldn't believe it.)

Style preferences are going to vary from man to man but let's start with a few attraction killers and basics. Be sure these things are up to snuff and you will have an improvement in your confidence based on your looks, and a corresponding improvement in your results.

Things that matter for immediate impact:

1. Pot bellies and beer bellies are a turn-off. They are ugly and scream "slob." The idea of seeing one naked is gross. If you have this issue you need to start eating better and working out pronto. Drink less if you need to.

2. Running shoes are for running ONLY. Never wear running shoes in a casual setting. Nothing screams "Stylishly inept" faster. If you have to have some sort of athletic shoe for casual wear get a pair of Vans or a pair of Sambas. Never ever running shoes. Tennis shoes are a close second unless you are playing tennis. Keep some good leather or canvas flip flops handy and keep your toenails clipped. No flip flops if you have toenail fungus or ugly feet (you know who you are.)

3. The amount of hair you have on your head does not matter. HOW you wear it does matter. If you have great hair, get a great haircut and comb it properly; if you have lost the top out of your hair keep it clipped short or shave it bald. Richard Nixon dos were not sexy then and they are not sexy now. Bruce Willis and Mr. Clean looks will score you the chicks. If you get flakes use a dandruff shampoo. Dandruff is not sexy.

4. Take care of your face. Grooming REALLY matters. If you wear facial hair, keep it trimmed neat. If you clean shave keep it shaved (unless its Sunday and you have sexy 2 day stubble. The guys with sexy 2 day stubble know who they are; they've been told by women.) If you are patchy, either wear a goatee or shave and do not do the 2-day stubble, you'll only look like you didn't bathe or didn't care (both bad). If you have acne use an exfoliant, get a little sun to help dry it out, wash you face with a gentle soap twice a day; cut back on dairy and sugar (which feed the bacteria that proliferates in acne.) See a dermatologist if its bad. Keep your hands OFF your face & wash your hand often. Dirt from your hands is a major contributor to acne.

5. Get some nice aftershave or cologne. Women remember smells. My first serious LTR wore Drakkar Noir. That was 25 years ago. I still recall his sexy smell.

6. Floss. Brush your tongue and gums as well as your teeth. Bad breath is like body odor. It is an instant attraction killer no matter how cute a guy is.

7. Plastic watches look cheap. They are also clunky. They are fine for a 5K or a workout, not for a night out. Ditto Fitbits and the like.

8. Keep your car clean & neat. Sloppy cars indicate a whole host of sloppy/lazy habits. Says all the wrong things about you.

9. Be able to make a decision. Indecisiveness is NOT sexy, even on really little things. If you can't/won't lead how can you expect her to follow? Make statements and lead by making the little decisions. She will tell you if she has a problem with something you say (food preference for example) and you can suggest an alternative at that point.

10. Learn to kiss well. If you are a good kisser she is going to want to discover what else you are good at. Kissing is a skill and there is stuff on the internet to help you figure that out.

That's kind of a grab bag, but each of these things matter. Some are simpler to fix than others, but this list will help you in the right direction.

Great list that is pretty easy to get and certainly would push any man to a 7 at the minimum. This shows he takes care of himself and cares about how he looks.

 

[Infern0]

Getting in REAL shape is the number 1 game changer in my experience. I'm talking real shape, not "I go to the gym twice a week, don't follow a routine and don't track macros" shape.

It instantly puts you on a physical level above 95% of men. And it makes you much more confident.

If you want it fast and easy just get on a ****tail of roids.