Dhoulmagus
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Where in that topic does it say I had sex???
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
What are the cutoff ages during Adulthood
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"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
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The same place it does in mine.
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I don't see myself agreeing with you much after the age 21 part, especially about age 28. Now I don't know what you mean by "mission in life" but if it deals with finding a profession, I would say early 20s (age 20 specifically) is ideal and 25 is probably the latest. Very easy to fall behind your peers once you hit that age and they have not already found their life's calling but are now seeing the rewards of their labor pay off.
IMO, a lot of guys in their 20s should focus a good bit of their energy on their careers and look towards getting ones they can excel in as well as see high payoffs in. The whole 30 is the new 20 deal is a load of nonsense.