"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What are the chances?

Fireballs

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Decided to give tinder a go today for the first time, matched with a girl and sent her a message saying something along the lines of that she had good taste in men by matching with me (A bit cheesy I know..)

About 5 minutes later I get a text from my fuk buddy:

Her: ''So you think my housemate has good taste in men?''
Me: ''lol''

Unreal... Never met her housemate before

Might have just lost a good fuk buddy lol.. oh well..
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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What? She's a fvck buddy, why would she care? There's no exclusivity with being a fvck buddy. Her question doesn't suggest it's going to change anything, so don't change your frame.

Just continue with the frame that she's a fvck buddy, because it's normal to fvck others while having a fvck buddy. In fact I think that's the entire point of being fvck buddies, it's just for the sex without any demand of being exclusive.
 

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Thought I'd post an update on this..

I kept frame and then hit her up as I usually do when I get back into town after my work swing, but radio silence from her.. Shame as she is a good lay but I'll put it down as a broken plate unless she gets in contact.
 
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