Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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What are the chances a Woman will Call you?

ReTiCuLeX

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Okay, long story short. I went to circuit city, returned an item, liked a chick after we looked at each-other numerous times, left the store after I got my return, explained to my Father I needed to go back inside to do something (ask out a chick).

Went back in, waited on her line. Asked her out to lunch sometime, she told me give her 5mins, got done what she was doing, asked for my #, I gave it to her with my email.

What are the chances she would call me ?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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i'd say one in a thousands.. seriously

should have asked her urs. nOw she can play u by calling u whenever. now. 2morrow. next week. next year. never. prank u. give it some one else..

never NEVER give ur number out. always flip it and take hers when u walk away. if she says no then u walk away.
 

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Hey man, atleast your out tryin to make it happen...props
 

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ReTiCuLeX said:
yeah I figured. Oh well, one step closer to growing my balls back I guess lol..
learn from your makes rahter putting yourself down.. NO one woke up one days was like "imma get me some puss1y" without developing some sort of state of mind.. aka GAME

confidence and know what to say and know what NOT to say is all u need..

only reason u should ask for the number is becasuse u take advantage. she will be wondering what kind of guy u are and when u will be calling.. and then slowly her interest rate will grow.. and u become bigger in the pic. but when u give her ur number u give her the advantage. most of the itme she wont call u back cuz girls.. thats just the way they are.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Next time you want to "pick up" (don't take that word literally) a cashier here is your line......if you are ordering food and she asks you "Do you want anything else" say, "Yes, I would like your phone number" and then quickly chime in and point to her and say "But don't charge me for it!!!" and have a gleam in your eye!!!

Ret - BRAVO for the attempt....but NEVER Never never cave in and gave a girl your number if you asked for hers first!!!!! Did she come up to you and ask??? NO, she didn't!!! So why is she reaping the rewards!!!!!!!!

If she likes you she will give it to you --regardless!!!!!
 

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aye your right bro, I never understood why woman bother taking #'s if the guy already f-ed up. Although I have gotten (Sorry I'm seeing someone before bs etc.. instead of that) I guess they use it as a rebound, incase no one calls them? lol
 

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aye your right bro, I never understood why woman bother taking #'s if the guy already f-ed up. Although I have gotten (Sorry I'm seeing someone before bs etc.. instead of that) I guess they use it as a rebound, incase no one calls them? lol
alot of reason to take that number. they might collect them. attention *****s.

they might prank u. thye might just take it to get u out of their face. because they rahter do than then lie to u. or maybe they took it and nto going to call u back because it feeds her ego

ALOT of reasons
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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ReTiCuLeX said:
Okay, long story short. I went to circuit city, returned an item, liked a chick after we looked at each-other numerous times, left the store after I got my return, explained to my Father I needed to go back inside to do something (ask out a chick).

Went back in, waited on her line. Asked her out to lunch sometime, she told me give her 5mins, got done what she was doing, asked for my #, I gave it to her with my email.

What are the chances she would call me ?

I give u props for the balls to approach:up: ... but......

I don't think this girl will call- reason being is she asked u to wait 5 min and u just stood there waiting.... This was an AFC move..... I don't think she would make u wait if she really wanted u.



Another thing is u should have got her number this way u are in control...
AFC move....

This was a tough approach but u should have talked to her sooner rather than run back in store.... This makes u look a little creepy....

And never give a girl ur number always get her number.
 

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My expierences have shown me to only count on girlfriends to call you when they say they will.
 

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ReTiCuLeX said:
What are the chances she would call me ?
Meh who cares,your out there approaching. You just acheived what many wish of doing but don't have the balls to do.
 

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I went through a phase where I tested giving out my number to girls instead of getting their number. Guess what my success rate was?

0 calls.
 

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Ok all the girls Ive been with, none of them actually call you up and "want to talk", they have their girlfrieds and their girly guyfriends for that sh!t.

They only ever called up when their hormones told them they wanted to fvck and I'm the man for the job.

Even then most will just text you at 2 in the morning to have a text convo, which I dont do, instead after 10 anoying texts which I dont reply to, I call up fluff talk a bit and set up a date.

The only other time the call you is when they cant find you at the place your meant to meet her etc etc.

Plus I'd rather talk to the girl in real life then over a stupid phone fvck that sh!t. I got better things to do like flex in front of the mirror oogling at my muscles LOL
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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i had some success with the pager... get a pager and give out that... i think a girl would page a guy before she would call.
 

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one thing that probably went wrong is that she noticed you before you left, and then you came BACK. that would be a major freak out on her part as a little bit stalker-ish...

i would have just approached her after getting done with all my business, or before hand, maybe get in front of her and say can i cut in? then just start sarging for as long as possible. then suggest something like 'hey maybe we should get together sometime or talk more or something.." wait for her answer and then close.
 

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wtf!? A pager!? Welcome to 1995 dude!
 

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Yeah I know, I should of said something from the very beginning. I had more than enough chances, I just wimped out thinking it over.

Oh well, you live and learn. Right now I'm seeing another girl, but I don't really like her.. and this other girl I've liked since February finally started talking sexually for once, because she lost her virginity finally to a friend lol..

So now I'm in the process of gaining the girl's confidence I been talking too since February, I only met her once but, we've talked long enough and it seems like she's a little freak haha.

I'm really not up for a relationship, I just want a good lay, I've gotta read the bible again lol.

Thanks all for your input though, you rock :)!
 

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Props man! It can be tough to go back and do the deed... I hate that feeling that I left without her number because she could be "the one."

By the way, can I get a link to the bible? I don't think I'm looking at the right thing...
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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