What are the biggest red flags for you?

[SargeMaximus]

It still works and you're annoyed that she didn't offer to replace it.

It is working dude.. Why are you so damn petty over such an insignificant matter.

Wallowing in unessasary drama, is a female trait.

I’m hardly wallowing. You are projecting. Ignored

 

[oldmanofthesea]

If the girl is still texting you despide the replies that you show - she is most likely just looking for your validation and it is a matter of time once she will stop texting?

Either that, yes, or she will realize you aren't a simp and that you have respect for yourself and that will turn her on and she will ask YOU out. Some guys here take a super hard-line where they will hard-next any woman who doesn't agree to a date, even if she later becomes the one to initiate the date request with you. Personally, I take a woman asking me for a date as a serious act of compliance, so I will reward that with an acceptance of her date request (or a re-schedule depending on how I'm feeling and what my availability is).

the whole point here is to be able to walk away which means for her “look, if you are expecting me to chase like your orbiters - better find othe dude for it”. This ultimately shows your high value and creates attraction?

Close. It does the following, in order:
#1 most important thing is that it allows you to gain respect for yourself.
#2 it communicates to her, exactly what you said in quotes and yes it does demonstrate high value
#3 while it CAN create attraction, you shouldn't expect it to because most girls who aren't into you aren't going to change their mind just because you won't orbit them. You're primarily doing it for yourself and telling her you aren't interested in what she's proposing. If it causes the side-effect of her becoming more attracted to you, that's ok too. But it's not the goal. She isn't the prize you are trying to win. You are the prize and you are evaluating if she is worth your time and attention. A girl who wants you as a simp is not worth your time and attention.

 

[powersize]

Either that, yes, or she will realize you aren't a simp and that you have respect for yourself and that will turn her on and she will ask YOU out. Some guys here take a super hard-line where they will hard-next any woman who doesn't agree to a date, even if she later becomes the one to initiate the date request with you. Personally, I take a woman asking me for a date as a serious act of compliance, so I will reward that with an acceptance of her date request (or a re-schedule depending on how I'm feeling and what my availability is).



Close. It does the following, in order:
#1 most important thing is that it allows you to gain respect for yourself.
#2 it communicates to her, exactly what you said in quotes and yes it does demonstrate high value
#3 while it CAN create attraction, you shouldn't expect it to because most girls who aren't into you aren't going to change their mind just because you won't orbit them. You're primarily doing it for yourself and telling her you aren't interested in what she's proposing. If it causes the side-effect of her becoming more attracted to you, that's ok too. But it's not the goal. She isn't the prize you are trying to win. You are the prize and you are evaluating if she is worth your time and attention. A girl who wants you as a simp is not worth your time and attention.

Appreciate it man. I fuked up with one girl recently and haven’t initiated any contact after (it is under Fuked Up Tonight threat that I posted 1 week ago). She is pretty much the type we were discussing here. Your advise actually helps me to realize that I am doing the right thing now.

 

[Bokanovsky]

Red Flags:

1. Her parents are divorced.
2. Tattoos (I can accept one or two small "mistakes" but extensive tattooing on a woman is a sign of serious mental health issues, in my experience).
3. Never offers to pay.
4. Any whiff of wokeness or leftism in general.
5. Majored in psychology in college (women who major in psychology are often motivated by desire to understand their own psychological issues).
6. Has multiple cats (the stereotype about the crazy cat lady is very true).

 

[HaleyBaron]

 

[jimwho]

How did men even get to such a pathetic state? Modern man has no dignity or self respect. Nobody in my fathers generation would have signed up for onlyfans.

Feminism backed by liberals backed by political correctness. The pussification of all mankind.

 

[BriBri]

Feminism backed by liberals backed by political correctness. The pussification of all mankind.

Spot on! and women driving cars like this:

 

[jimwho]

BriBri,, That's hilarious. On the "scoop" it even says (CAT) bwaaha! To not Hijack, a red flag for me is she orders a burger well done, no pickle, extra mayo, extra cheese, no lettuce etc etc. AT A DRIVE THROUGH. Maybe I'm being picky?

 

[BriBri]

BriBri,, That's hilarious. On the "scoop" it even says (CAT) bwaaha! To not Hijack, a red flag for me is she orders a burger well done, no pickle, extra mayo, extra cheese, no lettuce etc etc. AT A DRIVE THROUGH. Maybe I'm being picky?

At least she orders a burger......Vegans are an immediate disqualifier for me.

 

[SargeMaximus]

At least she orders a burger......Vegans are an immediate disqualifier for me.

Same. I stopped talking to my vegan cousin who kept trying to convert me and guilt trip me into veganism. Last I heard he was losing his eyesight smh

 

[soulforge]

Major Red Flags For Me!

01. Sexualy abused as a child (Run)
02. Casual drug user (Addict in the making)
03. History of dating abusive men (she won't know how to be with a good man)
04. Too many male friends
05. Single mum
06. All her exes where terrible (according to her)
07. Likes to have nights out (Bars/Clubs)
08. Posts skimpy pictures on Social Media (she still has a for sale sign)
09. Has strong leftist/woke beliefs (Run)
10. Claims to be a strong independent woman (Run)

 

[powersize]

Major Red Flags For Me!

01. Sexualy abused as a child (Run)
02. Casual drug user (Addict in the making)
03. History of dating abusive men (she won't know how to be with a good man)
04. Too many male friends
05. Single mum
06. All her exes where terrible (according to her)
07. Likes to have nights out (Bars/Clubs)
08. Posts skimpy pictures on Social Media (she still has a for sale sign)
09. Has strong leftist/woke beliefs (Run)
10. Claims to be a strong independent woman (Run)

What happened by the way with you and that colleague at work that you posted a while ago?

 

[powersize]

I see a lot of folks mentioned abuse experience. How does it work when you date such girls?

 

[BriBri]

I see a lot of folks mentioned abuse experience. How does it work when you date such girls?

I'm actually curious as to why some girls/women would offer this up in conversation, with a guy, on a date. Are they looking for some kind of sympathy, or is it a hint to the guy to not 'try any of that' with them? Anyway....

 

[powersize]

I'm actually curious as to why some girls/women would offer this up in conversation, with a guy, on a date. Are they looking for some kind of sympathy, or is it a hint to the guy to not 'try any of that' with them? Anyway....

I had only 1 girl who told me she had some problems with her dad even though I didn’t ask. That girl was kind of weird

 

[SargeMaximus]

I'm actually curious as to why some girls/women would offer this up in conversation, with a guy, on a date. Are they looking for some kind of sympathy, or is it a hint to the guy to not 'try any of that' with them? Anyway....

Imo it’s beta bait. Any guy that sympathizes with her is immediately in the friend zone

 

[mjb3617]

I see a lot of folks mentioned abuse experience. How does it work when you date such girls?

They seem "off" more often than not. Like they're not present in the moment. They may seem engaged but they're not fully there. That was my experience with an ex who was beaten and abused by a schizo mother growing up.

The sex was fantastic and I could do almost anything I wanted to her but not long term material for sure.

 

[soulforge]

What happened by the way with you and that colleague at work that you posted a while ago?

Haha well I completely nexted her.. She was making things a little too difficult to meet for sex.

Since I nexted her, she began reaching out, trying to talk to me, sending me Facebook freind requests etc..

She is on my permanent ignore list.. If they it make things too difficult, simply move on to the next.

 

[soulforge]

If your talking about sexual abuse, especially when she was a young girl? Then yes they are seriously damaged.

Many of these girls become full on sluts by age 17-18 I have seen many get involved with stripping/porn etc.

Most will experiment with drugs, or self harm.

It's unfortunate what happened to them as children, however you can't fix the damage.

They will give you the most amazing sex.. Fullfil your every fantasy.. However long term they are poison!

 

[powersize]

Haha well I completely nexted her.. She was making things a little too difficult to meet for sex.

Since I nexted her, she began reaching out, trying to talk to me, sending me Facebook freind requests etc..

She is on my permanent ignore list.. If they it make things too difficult, simply move on to the next.

Weren’t you acting needy before, and then got your shi1t together before nexting?