"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What Are The Benefits Of A Facial Moisturizer?

dadmonson

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Anybody know????? I want to provoke a discussion on here. I heard somebody say that facial moisturizers are overrated.

Does anybody here not use a facial moisturizer and still have alright skin???? For those that don't use it is your skin really dry???? Also for those that use it what does it do for you???? Does it make you oily???? etc. discuss...
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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TheVirtualMind

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With the current acne medicine I'm on, I NEED a moisturizer or my face is really dry (severely itches, flakes, red, ect). If you wash your face and you don't get that "tight" feeling on your skin, then that's good. If, however, your face feels "tight," itches, flakes, gets real red, ect, then put on some moisturizer.

It might feel weird when you put it on at first, but trust me, it helps a LOT.
 

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I use mine after showers.. the skin around my nose gets flaky and really dry if I don't.

It's a pain in the ass and most people I know don't need moisturizers, but I suppose they don't have to deal with cracking and flaking skin around their nose, so..

If you think you need it, use it. A good combo is a strong facial exfoliator, use that in the shower to clean dead and dry skin off, then use the moisturizer afterwards.
 

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I have an after shave balm that I use after showers (it's just ADIDDAS) and it does wonders for my skin. The back says vitamin A,C,E & Aloe. I do not (remember) to moisturize every day but it does make my skin glow when I use it. I pretty much apply it to my whole face not just where I shave.
 

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my skin is naturally pretty good. when i was in high school, i used to moisturize my face after showers and before parties, dances, etc. my skin would also get kinda oily at times. i didnt know why (didnt happen before) so i stopped using moisturizer and i stopped getting oily skin

so if ur skin is already pretty good, i wouldnt worry about moisturizers

as gay as this might sound tho, facials will make ur skin look really nice
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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