We all know about the dreaded **** tests and their purpose but is there any way for us to do the same to them? That car door test from A Bronx Tale is outdated so I know there are other ways to tell. When we meet others we're always putting our best foot forward in the beginning but what can you ask her to tell how she really is? What statements could she make to tell if she's selfish, gets jealous, how sexual she is etc. ?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
What are some ways to tell how a woman would be in the future?
- Thread starter S. Pryor
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
the only way is to be aware and listen. (sucks doesn't it?)
you may hear her mutter some curse about mexicans NOW you can foresee she is racist. or you might be aware enough to see your girl is pitching a tent....
no penises waiting in the future if you are in the moment
you may hear her mutter some curse about mexicans NOW you can foresee she is racist. or you might be aware enough to see your girl is pitching a tent....
no penises waiting in the future if you are in the moment
Wow I made this thread this morning and the only response I got was seven minutes ago. I said that people put their best foot forward in the begining so is there certain questions you could ask her to tell how she'll be. She's not always gonna be so tactless that she says some rude **** that'll have your Spidey Senses tingling. So a lot of you guys don't know **** is what I'm getting. Ok cool.
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I think the main way to tell is to find out about her past. Just listen to her when she starts yapping away and blaming everyone but herself for her problems in the past. If it sounds like she had trouble back then, she will have trouble with you in the future.
"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.