I'm way more persistent than almost anyone on SoSuave, and have probably banged more "uninterested" (by SoSuave terms) girls than most guys here have banged "interested" girls. But....
MountainSlide said:
me and this girl flirt and stuff so I got her number the other day and we made plans but she broke them because she was called into work. Today I asked her if she was down to hang out then she gave me a list of things she's doing without offering alternative times for us to hang out. Should I back off? go and find someone else?
If only one of these things happened - I'd still be pushing on.
But when both things happen - it's a sign that she's really not that interested.
1. Women rarely get "called into work" as much as they use it for an excuse. If I get that, or "my sister just called last minute and needs me to babysit", or anything along those lines. I assume someone higher on her priority list asked her to do something.
2. When I ask a woman to do something and instead of just saying "I'm busy that day" they list their life story for the next week - I believe that's cognitive dissonance at work. All she knows is she doesn't want to hangout, and her brain is coming up with a thousand reasons at once as to why.
So yeah... I'd just move on at this point.