"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What are some signs your gf might be into someone else

mikey2012

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1. Distant
2. Change..ie speech/hobbies/interests/music means she is emulating her new lover
3. No sexual interaction.
4. Less communication
5. Starting fights for no reason
6. Spending lots of time on phone (texting)

you get the gist...
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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sylvester the cat

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If she is about to branch swing then the most definitive sign will be provoking you into a confrontation and argument thus giving her justification to end the relationship.

Her flakey behaviour suggests that she has already begun this process.
 

BrainDamage92

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****ING HOES MAN

dump her asap and never look back

Dont act with jelaousy, dont be indifferent alpha. Its over. Any course of action other than dumping her right now will be stupid trust me.

Just dump her and dont give her a reason. She knows what the reason is all too well. Pull the rug and watch her stupid reaction and laugh.

Ahhhhh ****ing hoes man never have the gut to tell you whats up for its too late. Ahhh...
 
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