"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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What are some places for nice clothes

nsxjg80

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that girls usually like on guys? I'm thinking about picking up some nice clothes from some store for when I talk to this girl and maybe ask her to prom. A friend recommended Hollister and another recommended Pac Sun. What do you guys think?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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The Shocker

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depends on the look you're shooting for. If you want to look like the stereotypical "cool guy" (which WILL pull a lot of chicks) then go with the Abercrombie, Hollister, American Eagle look.

If you're looking for something slightly less generic, I like Express, Izod and Lacoste polos, and a lot of the brand names at Macy's (Perry Ellis, etc.). These are all a bit more formal.

I couldn't tell you where to go for goth clothing, if you're looking to pull those chicks. I have no clue.
 

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I go to AE, Abercrombie, Hollister, and Aeropostale. Buy a blazer or two, and some light peacock accessories. Like Shocker, I have no clue where to get goth clothes so if that's your style, good luck with that. Pac Sun has some dank ass hats though; buy a phat corona cowboy hat, you're guaranteed to get somewhere.
 

Michele l'Arcangelo

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lets beat the dead horse some more... theres a ton of good threads on what threads to wear.

do a search.
 

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For jeans I'd say go to Ross.
They're the same ones they sell at the mall, only for ALOT less.
[leaves you with more money for other stuff]

For shirts I wouldn't know, since I wear mostly band T's that I've picked up at shows/gigs because they're cheaper there.

[Damn, I sound cheap....hahahaha]
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Berlex

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don't forget to pop your collar! just remember, the collar pop makes panties drop
 

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To be honest I don't know anys specific shops, I just go to lots and pick out cloths I like. But something I have realised that works well is if your part of some sort of sporting or music community, try getting their branded cloths if they have any.

I'm a diver, and own jackets and shirts from dive centres around the world (most stating the location and such). They work amazingly well as peakocking cloths as people often come up and ask me if I'm a diver, and that proceeds to easy DHV stories.
 

I.A.F.Y.B.

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I don't think it really matters what you wear. Yeah, you want to look good with some style. And not wear old beat up clothes. Wearing something different and unique can get women to approach you and comment on it. But, really I believe it all comes down to how you present yourself.
 
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