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You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

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What are some other forms on IOI?

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Im aware of a few that have been mentioned by Mystery, such as:

1. Light scratching of the hand, shoulder, or face.
2. Hair tossing
3. Forms of Kino escalation such as holding your hands out for her to place hers upon yours, and if he places them palm side down, it means she is interested.

However, I was wondering if there are any other forms of IOI out there, or, if it is possible for some girls to skip the IOI's stated above and go straight for kino escalation such as touching as an IOI.

Any responses would be appreciated.
 

"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

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She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

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1. She gets naked in front of you.
2. She grabs your kock.
3. She tells you she wants to cuddle in the nude.
 
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I was thinking of more subtle.

But if a girl were to just come up and grab my jock, i would know what she wanted.

Would you say playful touching could be an IOI, or just a personality trait. I wasn't really showing personal interest in her, I was talking to her friend. But she kept touching me, as to get my attention. could be be a test. if it were a test, i think i failed badly. however I'm new to "gaming".
 
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"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

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attention *****s give off IOIs
girls who like you as a person and think you're really cool, but aren't exactly worried that you'll pursue them intimately, will give IOIs (hug, kino, proximity, approaching, talking, etc). it's a pseudo-friendzone. happens often in social circles (work, for me). not a bad thing or anything, just ask her out and let her know youre interested in more
 
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Ah... that makes sense I guess. So, I guess what this all means in a nutshell is Kino is just a way for a guy to test out if a girl likes him or is comfortable with him. Its just a tool in sealing the deal, so to speak.
 
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