“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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what are some good things to have laying around the house?

jvick

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obviously it helps having cool things around that get attention, but i was wondering what stuff you guys have at your place just to make it easier for girls to spend the night? i usually try to keep one spare new toothbrush, and eye contact solution/case. learned that lesson the hard way after a girl left saying she didnt want to leave her contacts in and needed to go home lol. what about random girl stuff like lipstick and eyeliner that gets left around? leave it somewhere a new girl may find it? or just toss it? lately ive just tossed or put in drawers stuff stuff that gets left. waht do you guys do?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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No, don't leave another girl's makeup out, that is bad form.

I'd say to keep a decent amount of food, cold bottled drinks, alcohol. Beyond that, maybe a pack of cigarettes if you tend to date chicks who smoke. In your freezer, one pack is good for a couple of months. Keep some lotion if you don't use it, also keep hand towels in the bathroom, which is easy to forget. Keep your bed made, and always have a shirt or other clothes to give her. She will not give them back, btw, so always give her clothes that you don't want.
 

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my pad is 90% red. the color of love, romance, and banging. i have some funky music from 70's adult cinema playing in the background when a broad is over as well. http://static.rateyourmusic.com/album_images/97386.jpg i also have no chairs for one person. everything is where at least two can sit together. my place has a new high-end red shag carpet. not like your grandma has! no, this is stuff that is so cool that i feel gay just walking on it. red curtains. some really cool panel lights that change color depending on how i set them.

fyi, i usually call the carpet cleaning crew in at least twice a month when i am getting lots of action. god only knows whose fluids those are on my shag.

clothes for her? what is this? the goodwill store? the hor ain't spending the night in the Lair of Aldaris. hell no. ***** leaves with what ***** enters in. i even check some of their pockets and purses to make sure they didn't pick anything up while i was taking a dump.
 

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condoms for the hoes, massage oil and candles for the babes, bus ticket for the b itches, handcuffs for the freaks.

Clean sheets, a mirror big enough to view the two of you, digital cam for pictures, slow tunes for putting her in da mood quicker. Dimmer switch, scented oils, satin sheets,cell phone to make u appear popular.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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aldaris said:
my pad is 90% red. the color of love, romance, and banging. i have some funky music from 70's adult cinema playing in the background when a broad is over as well. http://static.rateyourmusic.com/album_images/97386.jpg i also have no chairs for one person. everything is where at least two can sit together. my place has a new high-end red shag carpet. not like your grandma has! no, this is stuff that is so cool that i feel gay just walking on it. red curtains. some really cool panel lights that change color depending on how i set them.

fyi, i usually call the carpet cleaning crew in at least twice a month when i am getting lots of action. god only knows whose fluids those are on my shag.

clothes for her? what is this? the goodwill store? the hor ain't spending the night in the Lair of Aldaris. hell no. ***** leaves with what ***** enters in. i even check some of their pockets and purses to make sure they didn't pick anything up while i was taking a dump.
This sounds like The Ladies Man from SNL. I read it in that voice, and it was hilarious.
 

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a Guitar, foreign objects, sports items, art, expensive items to make it seem that your are financially stable.
 

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Bible_Belt said:
No, don't leave another girl's makeup out, that is bad form.

I'd say to keep a decent amount of food, cold bottled drinks, alcohol. Beyond that, maybe a pack of cigarettes if you tend to date chicks who smoke. In your freezer, one pack is good for a couple of months. Keep some lotion if you don't use it, also keep hand towels in the bathroom, which is easy to forget. Keep your bed made, and always have a shirt or other clothes to give her. She will not give them back, btw, so always give her clothes that you don't want.
:up: :up: :up: Great f'n advice. A bit of tanning oil is fantastic as well for those impromtu massages or experiments with anal sex.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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• Massage and exotic oils. (Easy transition to massage)
• Aromatherapy candles and incense. (Stimulate with scent)
• Architecture and Interior Design Magazines (i like chicks who are into that)
• Artwork, relics, souvenirs and other conversation pieces.
• BOOKS, not the cheesy self-improvement kind but actual good reading.

What you SHOULDNT be leaving around are dirty socks and underwear, and for the love of God, make sure your bathroom is freaking spotless! Girls get really turned off by that crusty yellow goatee you leave on the rim.

Other things not to leave hanging around

• Porn
• Check stubs, Bills etc
• Crappy, Worthless Men's magazines (FHM, Maxim, etc)
• Posters of your celebrity crushes. (What are you 12?)
 
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