obviously it helps having cool things around that get attention, but i was wondering what stuff you guys have at your place just to make it easier for girls to spend the night? i usually try to keep one spare new toothbrush, and eye contact solution/case. learned that lesson the hard way after a girl left saying she didnt want to leave her contacts in and needed to go home lol. what about random girl stuff like lipstick and eyeliner that gets left around? leave it somewhere a new girl may find it? or just toss it? lately ive just tossed or put in drawers stuff stuff that gets left. waht do you guys do?
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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
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what are some good things to have laying around the house?
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You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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No, don't leave another girl's makeup out, that is bad form.
I'd say to keep a decent amount of food, cold bottled drinks, alcohol. Beyond that, maybe a pack of cigarettes if you tend to date chicks who smoke. In your freezer, one pack is good for a couple of months. Keep some lotion if you don't use it, also keep hand towels in the bathroom, which is easy to forget. Keep your bed made, and always have a shirt or other clothes to give her. She will not give them back, btw, so always give her clothes that you don't want.
I'd say to keep a decent amount of food, cold bottled drinks, alcohol. Beyond that, maybe a pack of cigarettes if you tend to date chicks who smoke. In your freezer, one pack is good for a couple of months. Keep some lotion if you don't use it, also keep hand towels in the bathroom, which is easy to forget. Keep your bed made, and always have a shirt or other clothes to give her. She will not give them back, btw, so always give her clothes that you don't want.
my pad is 90% red. the color of love, romance, and banging. i have some funky music from 70's adult cinema playing in the background when a broad is over as well. http://static.rateyourmusic.com/album_images/97386.jpg i also have no chairs for one person. everything is where at least two can sit together. my place has a new high-end red shag carpet. not like your grandma has! no, this is stuff that is so cool that i feel gay just walking on it. red curtains. some really cool panel lights that change color depending on how i set them.
fyi, i usually call the carpet cleaning crew in at least twice a month when i am getting lots of action. god only knows whose fluids those are on my shag.
clothes for her? what is this? the goodwill store? the hor ain't spending the night in the Lair of Aldaris. hell no. ***** leaves with what ***** enters in. i even check some of their pockets and purses to make sure they didn't pick anything up while i was taking a dump.
fyi, i usually call the carpet cleaning crew in at least twice a month when i am getting lots of action. god only knows whose fluids those are on my shag.
clothes for her? what is this? the goodwill store? the hor ain't spending the night in the Lair of Aldaris. hell no. ***** leaves with what ***** enters in. i even check some of their pockets and purses to make sure they didn't pick anything up while i was taking a dump.
condoms for the hoes, massage oil and candles for the babes, bus ticket for the b itches, handcuffs for the freaks.
Clean sheets, a mirror big enough to view the two of you, digital cam for pictures, slow tunes for putting her in da mood quicker. Dimmer switch, scented oils, satin sheets,cell phone to make u appear popular.
Clean sheets, a mirror big enough to view the two of you, digital cam for pictures, slow tunes for putting her in da mood quicker. Dimmer switch, scented oils, satin sheets,cell phone to make u appear popular.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
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Porno mags.
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aldaris said:
Kind of, yeah, it's how I get rid of the clothes I don't want.
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Bible_Belt said:
Great f'n advice. A bit of tanning oil is fantastic as well for those impromtu massages or experiments with anal sex."She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
Señor Fingers
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• Massage and exotic oils. (Easy transition to massage)
• Aromatherapy candles and incense. (Stimulate with scent)
• Architecture and Interior Design Magazines (i like chicks who are into that)
• Artwork, relics, souvenirs and other conversation pieces.
• BOOKS, not the cheesy self-improvement kind but actual good reading.
What you SHOULDNT be leaving around are dirty socks and underwear, and for the love of God, make sure your bathroom is freaking spotless! Girls get really turned off by that crusty yellow goatee you leave on the rim.
Other things not to leave hanging around
• Porn
• Check stubs, Bills etc
• Crappy, Worthless Men's magazines (FHM, Maxim, etc)
• Posters of your celebrity crushes. (What are you 12?)
• Aromatherapy candles and incense. (Stimulate with scent)
• Architecture and Interior Design Magazines (i like chicks who are into that)
• Artwork, relics, souvenirs and other conversation pieces.
• BOOKS, not the cheesy self-improvement kind but actual good reading.
What you SHOULDNT be leaving around are dirty socks and underwear, and for the love of God, make sure your bathroom is freaking spotless! Girls get really turned off by that crusty yellow goatee you leave on the rim.
Other things not to leave hanging around
• Porn
• Check stubs, Bills etc
• Crappy, Worthless Men's magazines (FHM, Maxim, etc)
• Posters of your celebrity crushes. (What are you 12?)