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For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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What are some good peacocking items for school?

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You guys know any good peacocking oobjects for school? I have this really cool shortboard i've been riding around but i tend to get more conversations with guys out of it. Though im sure i look cool on it. lol.

what are some good peacocking strats you guys have used during the day (generally at school)? and that arent totally wierd like black feathery hats and goggles. lol.
 

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She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

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The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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It all depends on how your school is.
For instance: my school is 97% white... and mostly everyone is casual or preppy looking.
So, some things that I wear to peacock are:
- Customs Air Force 1's. I just bought this SICK pair that are bright orange and red. Always gets attention because NO one else has anything like it.
- 80's style neon jackets. My friends and I go to Goodwill and buy these all the time. Super cheap, and sure to get attention. Plus, they are actually pretty badass.
- Unique necklace. Everyone and their cousin wears pooka shell necklaces. Try something new. I have a simple shooting string (for lacrosse... basically a long shoelace) around my neck. Everyone always asks "why are you wearing a shoelace?" and its great for starting conversations because I have a good story behind it.
- Checkered board shorts. Chicks dig these. Hollister has a bunch of new ones that are tight. Can't go wrong.

Basically I like to wear bright colors and mix a little bit of urban still with the preppy image. Works well.
Good luck
 

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supremo i like the 80s style stuff. That sounds tight. im not sure about checkered shorts cuz those are everywhere now. But other than that you got a lot of fresh ideas.

redspicy nobody said anything aobut peacocking everyday, and the point is that you don't do anything super wierd so that it might not even seem like you are peacocking. anyways, i just started college and with 40,000 students, nothing gets old.
 

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Oh yeah also...
if you guys have an Urban Outfitters near you... they got these prime sunglasses. They come in pink, neon green, and baby blue.
They're like plastic aviators with black splatter.
Chicks diggem. Perfect time to use the "here you can wear them... but im not giving them to you, i want em back" routine.

Also if you have an appliance store near your place, they have this shirt paint that you can actually put on shirts and it'll stay on.
So what my friend and I do it hang it up and splatter it on. Looks tight.
 

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