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what are some good conversation starters in a college classroom?

duke104

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Theres an attractive girl in one of my classes and ive finally manned up and decided to talk to her the next time i see her. what are some good conversation starters that i can use after class?
 

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The Karate Kid

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Start with................Hi


then just talk about whatever random **** happened in class that day.

Classrooms are the easiest places to pickup chicks.
 

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Contrary to what Daniel-san is saying, picking up chicks in class is not easy. I haven't had any luck. Though that is usually because I wait too long to ask girls out.

An easy topic is asking what she did over the weekend. You can also use that conversation to find out what her interests are. A clever line to use in the conversation is a variant of, "Did you go there with you boyfriend?" She will give you one of three answers. "Yes I went with him", "No I didn't go with him", "I don't have a boyfriend."

In that one conversation you can find out what her interests are and if she's single. If she isn't single it's for you to decide if it's worth the effort to steal her.

The real challenge is finding out what to do from there.
 

r0cky

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See here my man, deciding to talk to a girl isnt 'manning up'. To go up to her and actually talk is manning up.
I suggest talking about anything related to the class, ask her if she's majoring in that class or if she knows if the class will be easy, sh1t like that.
 

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Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Honestly I used to pick up girls' numbers from my classes all of the time. I found that there are a few good approaches. One thing I would do was say I was sitting next to a chick in class, I would take out a piece of notebook paper and write something like "Shoot me this prof is so boring" or make fun of the professor. Then I'd have her write something back on the notebook, and in the end I would structure it so she wrote down her phone number at the end. All of your notes have to be C+F.

Other one that worked was to just start talking to people in general about the class before it starts, when you're waiting in the hallway or something. There's plenty of opportunities you just need to look for em.
 
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