"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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What are some examples of a smooth talker?

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Dark Nimbus

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A smooth talker is a guy who can get a girl to lose all sense of time during a conversation and get her to open up about topics she normally wouldn't, without even realizing it. He's good at seducing girls with a combination of interesting and funny jokes/stories while being able to control the mood the entire time. He wants the girl to walk away after having seen many levels to his personality, without him even revealing much about himself in the process.

A smooth talker ALWAYS controls the conversation and thinks 4 steps ahead of the girl. He listens to the smallest details and then brings them up at the most appropriate times to elicit a bonding experience through understanding and communication.

He pries into a girls life and finds her strengths and weaknesses without her realizing he's building up a psychological profile of her personality in his head. He paves the way for future conversations by learning about her history, bouncing around from topic to topic to keep her interested and off guard, yet somehow makes it seem effortless.

A smooth talker picks up on patterns quickly from his former experiences with chatting to girls. He has a good idea of what works and what doesn't, and uses that information wisely. He's not afraid to try new techniques, and knows how to recover if they don't work the way he intended.

Most importantly, a good talker realizes that the biggest erogenous zone on any girl is her brain, and that the ONLY thing that needs to be aroused is that one part, and the rest will follow. He stays out of the friend zone by making his sexuality known and hints on his sexual motives in a playful way at first, and judging by the girls reaction and body language, decides how to progress.
 

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A good example of a smooth talker is Bill Clinton. The guy is well-known for smooth talking. Smooth phrases can only be realized in the context of the situation the smooth talking is applied.
 

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Getting ahead of yourselves here: 2 elements

1.) Confidence
2.) Empathy

You are very sure of yourself, you present yourself well, you speak like you are knowledgable. You can carry a conversation with all types of personalities...At the same time, you let them know that you understand what they are trying to say, you can easily connect with people through conversation...You use these two skills to attain what you want through the conversation...
 
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