What are some actual useful techniques for lasting longer in bed?

[thatfeel]

I'm not gonna lie, sometimes I can be really "sensitive" down there, and doing the deed can quickly work me up to the point of explosion in just minutes, 1 or 2 even, even seconds actually. Sad, yes. But I'm not here to feel sorry for myself. I'm just wondering if you guys have anything to say about this topic and how to improve longevity(i'm not talking about cardiovascular endurance/stamina)besides "kegel exercises" and "think about other stuff". Like physiological, psychological, medicinal remedies, etc. There is a book I was planning on buying but thought I'd post here first. If anyone's curious the books called Coping With Premature Ejaculation.

 

[abe0]

Zoloft has been helpful for that. Also....spank your little money before she arrives....As a last resort, think of your mother when you are doing it! Abe

 

[Blinkers]

Have you tried different types of condoms? For me even the most 'natural' feel mean I have to work 110% to maintain an erection so try the performance ones but don't be surprised if you have to plough like a rabid dog to maintain your stiffy...

 

[Dgwizdal]

1. Stop fapping - a lot of people have mixed reviews on the effects (make you come quicker or make you last longer) and WILL DISAGREE WITH ME.

IN MY EXPERIENCE - Fapping trains my c*ck to *** as quick as possible as I am racing to the finish. When I don't fap - I am more into it AND LAST LONGER during sex vs. The Fap mentality of just trying to get a nut off and get it over with.

Also - when you are fapping your c*ck to get it hard you are missing a step in the natural process of arousal and training your brain to rush through the process even further. Your d*ck should get naturally hard during foreplay without her even touching it. Once it's hard - then screwing around can begin.


2. If you feel like your going to *** - pull out, take a 10 second break, and then f*ck her from the side (Spoon f*ck) or F*ck her while you're standing (her on the bed missionary or doggy.) You come less quickly when YOUR legs are closed and there is less stress on your abdomen.

3. Get Drunk - you are less sensitive to feels when under the influence

4. F*ck her in the morning - related to your first post today - morning woods for me are the least sensitive woods.

5. Go to the gas station and find some d*ck pills. Whether it be night tiger, knight rider, staminex, etc etc. I don't know the science behind it but they help me to LAST LONGER. The best are the ones called HERBAL VIAGRA - They have Chinese writing on them and get your d*ck so hard you could **** a hole through concrete and can't feel a thing.

There are times where I will *** in 2 minutes and times where I can't *** at all. The above advice helps a lot to achieve the latter part of the spectrum when you need to.

I am very adamant about the NO FAP point though - When all I do is fvck and don't FAP for months at a time - I can *** on command and last forever. I know you have a girlfriend - I challenge you to only f*ck her for 3 weeks without touching your own c*ck. You may still fail the first couple times but by week 3 you may see some changes if your brain works the same way as mine.

YOU GOT NOTHING TO LOSE KID - Don't buy a kill myself book about c*mming too fast before giving my remedies a shot. (Pun intended)

 

[papawapa]

The more you nut the longer it takes. Spank your monkey daily.

When you feel you are about to bust pull out, put your thumb on top of your unit at the base and squeeze tight with your index and ring finger on the bottom. Do it when you are spanking to learn the technique. With practice you can stop it from busting.

Lastly, change it up. Fack her pu$$y until you start to feel it coming on, pull out and go down on her until it subsides, then stick it back in, rinse and repeat.

 

[FairShake]

First I would say go ahead and finish quickly. If she's a good'un she'll let you eat the pvssy until you are ready to go again. By that point you have hopefully made her cvm a time or two and both of you will be more relaxed. Don't let anyone tell you differently, cvmming too quickly is mostly mental, not physical. You aren't sensitive, just nervous and anxious.

Second, and I actually found this out by being with an understanding woman who let me stop and start a little bit until I would find my groove, sometimes if you let yourself cvm just a little you will be able to remain hard, still find sex pleasurable, and go as long as you like. It's a technique that you have to work out on your own though. Try stopping and starting while jerking off or with a girlfriend. Know the signs of when you are cvmming. Use the kegal muscle to push it back. Maybe a little will be released but not enough to kill your hard on. Get a new condom and go to town.

This is what worked for me. Give it a shot.

 

[thatfeel]

All sound advice, thanks guy.

 

[Ace9]

When you shift from thoughts of pleasuring yourself...to pleasuring her. I assure you, the problem will cease.

Better for her to nut, than for you to nut and for her to be unsatisfied. Pride thing, IMO.

 

[foreverAFC]

what i do is think of Mel from the TV show Alice

 

[VladPatton]

Smear Anbesol on your hog. It's an old porno trick. Then pop the rubber on. Not 100% sure the latex will hold up, so test at your own risk.

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