What are my chances!

[vic1234]

Happy New year, so I asked this fine girl for a coffee. We do dance Zumba together once in awhile! Attached here is her reply. Do I have a chance, should I check her up in let’s say two weeks ? What are your thoughts

 

[vic1234]

This below was her reply after I asked her for coffee…

So sorry l'm absolutely slammed this week! But I might be able to in the next couple weeks. Maybe we can get a few people together after zumba on Monday or something! I have clients right after Zumba on Friday


unfortunately :/ how is your week going?


Staying warm in the snow? Lol

 

[Westminster]

No specified alternative and suggesting inviting others - that, to me, sounds like a soft let down. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear.

 

[The Duke]

Have her bring her hot Zumba friends, flirt with all of them.

And @Westminster is spot on.

 

[SW15]

Have her bring her hot Zumba friends, flirt with all of them.

And @Westminster is spot on.

Agree with @Westminster and @The Duke .

Your best chance right now related to this situation is with one of her Zumba friends if that can actually materialize.

I would prioritize approaching other women over that supposed get together in the future.

 

[BPH]

No specified alternative and suggesting inviting others - that, to me, sounds like a soft let down. Sorry if that's not what you want to hear.

@vic1234 this is the correct answer, unfortunately.

 

[New_Journey]

But I might be able to in the next couple weeks

This is one giveaway, no woman is so busy for 3 weeks straight that she can do a night out.

Maybe we can get a few people together after zumba on Monday or something

This is another giveaway, she doesn't want to be alone with you, and she's "suggesting" on Monday, which is obviously the worst day of the week to go out.

Next course of action is to ignore her like she never existed, focus on other women or if you gonna be just an orbiter friend. This might show her that you respect yourself and won't be after any girl who doesn't you.

 

[Clockwerk50]

Good job asking her out! It takes courage, and the more experience you get, the better you'll become at it in the future. How did you ask her out? And what did you respond back?

Not sure if it's the same situation, but when I was in my early 20s, there was this girl in my social circle who was maybe a 6/10. I didn’t really know her well since I was pretty antisocial back then, and she was only a temporary member of the group. One Saturday night, I was hanging out at a friend's house, and he asked if it was okay to bring a female friend over to hang out. I said sure, which was his way of hinting that he wanted me out of there. So, I decided to ask out this girl, the "ugly duckling" of the group. She was kind and said I was sweet, but that she was busy, which was a soft rejection. Later, I found out that another guy in the group was already hitting it.

The point is, Zumba girl might already be getting attention and sex from someone else.

 

[Bokanovsky]

This below was her reply after I asked her for coffee…

So sorry l'm absolutely slammed this week! But I might be able to in the next couple weeks. Maybe we can get a few people together after zumba on Monday or something! I have clients right after Zumba on Friday

Really? The bolded part doesn't give you a clue????

 

[vic1234]

Thanks all points well taken! We live to fight another day.