"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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What are females worth TO YOU?

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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There is no proof indeed. I posted real pic with real girls to prove you a point.

I submitted to your request and you still asking for more ''proof''

Personnally, I don't need to prove anything,

I'll just leave you to wonder if its real or not while I approach my next date with my GF and we will lay at night. While you think about what's real or not about others... I am gonna be making it happens

How did it happens? I read the DJ bible, I connected with the girls, built kino and fun, allowed them to see parts of my heart, hold good frame and take care of my image and portray it on them (look good and feel good), always escalated because escalation is better than regret ... and I know what I WANT.... and I listen to advice here to increase my tool box

Good luck




I like how they have french name and tag ;) ... So you french too ?

Who cares about others, let them be in their own fantasy about life while we make our life a fantasy

I posted pics to prove a point... it got proven.

Now, to what really matters: Learning, Improving, Acting
I don't have anything warm in my heart. So allowing them to see it probably wouldn't help me. Unless they like psychos.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Isn't life just grand?
I think Alpha Dons deal with it much less though. The dynamics are swapped around when the chick is chasing. These guys will sometimes feed them a shlt sandwich, and they kindly ask for seconds :rolleyes:
 

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You know what will never sh*t test you? MONEY.
Exactly. If you’re a woman’s desire.. Either by money, status or just being rico sauve.. She’s going to fall in line and chase. If you’re a beta she’s trying to weed out.. You’ll be shlt tested repeatedly imo
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Exactly. If you’re a woman’s desire.. Either by money, status or being rico sauve.. She’s going to fall in line and chase. If you’re a beta she’s trying to weed out.. You’ll be shlt tested repeatedly imo
But then I would have to give money to them? That's not worth it.
 

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I never said anything about giving away money. A man who’s a woman’s desire that she’s chasing. Will be shlt tested less imo. A man could be desirable based on money, status ect.
Hef is a prime example :D Guy probably needed special undies to keep his old saggy ballz from dragging on the floor.. But always had a stable of 20 year old 10s by his side. Think he was shlt tested? :D
 

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A man who portraits all desirable traits to a women will get sh¡t tested even more. I would start wondering if I dont get **** tested at all.
True.

The more high VALUE you are.. the more insecure the woman becomes. When women are insecure they inflict emotional abuse via the sh*t test to bring you down to their level or gain more control over you.

I've noticed anytime I display an "alpha trait" around women like confidence, politically incorrect speech or strong opinions the sh*t testing starts. Since I raised my VALUE in recent years with financial success, I get sh*t tested more than ever.

I've realized that women don't like it when you feel too good about yourself lol.
 
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I never said anything about giving away money. A man who’s a woman’s desire that she’s chasing. Will be shlt tested less imo. A man could be desirable based on money, status ect.
Hef is a prime example :D Guy probably needed special undies to keep his old saggy ballz from dragging on the floor.. But always had a stable of 20 year old 10s by his side. Think he was shlt tested? :D
He paid them.
 

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True.

The more high VALUE you are.. the more insecure the woman becomes. When women are insecure they inflict emotional abuse via the sh*t test to bring you down to their level or gain more control over you.

I've noticed anytime I display an "alpha trait" around women like confidence, politically incorrect speech or strong opinions the sh*t testing starts. Since I raised my VALUE in recent years with financial success, I get sh*t tested more than ever.

I've realized that women don't like it when you feel too good about yourself lol.
You’re probably right. I never looked at it that way :D
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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A way to instigate a woman into cooking quickly is to keep teasing and challenging about it. Propose a mid-week date to shop for ingrediants (cheap date to keep a plate steady spinning), then have her come over at the weekend to make it (another relatively cheap date and sex).

It's a good weeks worth of dating. Keeps interest high, gives progression, tests and challenges her, doesn't cost much, gets her to invest, and keeps between the grey area between lover and provider.
Who even LIKES hanging out with girls that much? That sounds boring as fvck.
 
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I do.

If you think hanging out with girls twice a week is too much for you, just leave them to people who don't have the energy levels of a geriatric.



Boring is your constant moaning. Fvcking snoozefest, until someone like me comes along and lifts it from mediocrity. Then all the white-knights and women lift their fat little grubby hands skyward, and begrudgingly proclaim "now there's a hero".

Remember, you aren't attractive, teaching me anything useful about life, cooking me dinner, or giving me head, either. Always be aware of the value being exchanged.

Rather hang out with a woman than a disgruntled white-knight anytime. Much better company. You recently made a field report where you sat in a corner, drunk and grunting at people. You aren't exactly a bag of laughs.

Consider your own presence briefly, relative to that which you are criticizing.
Great!

Have fun at the grocery store.
 

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There is no proof indeed. I posted real pic with real girls to prove you a point.

I submitted to your request and you still asking for more ''proof''

Personnally, I don't need to prove anything,

I'll just leave you to wonder if its real or not while I approach my next date with my GF and we will lay at night. While you think about what's real or not about others... I am gonna be making it happens

How did it happens? I read the DJ bible, I connected with the girls, built kino and fun, allowed them to see parts of my heart, hold good frame and take care of my image and portray it on them (look good and feel good), always escalated because escalation is better than regret ... and I know what I WANT.... and I listen to advice here to increase my tool box

Good luck




I like how they have french name and tag ;) ... So you french too ?

Who cares about others, let them be in their own fantasy about life while we make our life a fantasy

I posted pics to prove a point... it got proven.

Now, to what really matters: Learning, Improving, Acting
Yep, I'm french
 
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